Do you tell your partner if they have bad breath?
By toolfan
@toolfan (305)
United States
April 1, 2007 6:44pm CST
We have a garlic restaurant down the street from where we live, and sometimes my spouse will go out to it, and just reek of garlic for several days. I don't want to say anything, because I do not want to hurt her feelings. Yet, sometimes, it can make your eyes water. What do you do in a situation like this?
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15 responses
@patgalca (18358)
• Orangeville, Ontario
2 Apr 07
Wouldn't you want to know if you had bad breath? Better to have your significant other tell you than another acquaintance or, God forbid, a complete stranager. I never hesitate to tell my husband (or my kids for that matter) and they don't hesitate to tell me. The same goes for body odour.
@5000ml (1923)
• Belgium
22 Apr 07
Yes, I always tell my boyfriend if he has bad breath. I usually say it as a joke or just ask him if he's feeling unwell or if he's eaten something with a strong taste. His breath usually smells good, so there's usually an actual direct cause for it. I have to admit that I'm not always very careful with his feelings, but I usually mean it as a joke. He does the same with me (he's less tactful though!) so he gets me back :)
@masbaaz (395)
• India
10 Apr 07
Till now I have not,
But I will try to tell her the next time I felt her breath is a bad breath.
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
22 Apr 07
i wouldn't tell them in so many words-i'd just buy some tic-tacs and casually ask them if they'd like one too.avoids come right out and saying they have bad breath.
@Danewlyweds (195)
• United States
2 Apr 07
YES, wouldnt you want to know if you were stinkey? You should tell him. Just try to make it funny like say babe your breath is kickin or dang babe i know your not a vampire cuz if you were your breath would kill you and if he feels bad then just sayits not that big of a deal if i was stinkey id want you to tell me. Or you could give him some breth mint candy or gum just make it his favorite so you look like a sweat heart. Then buy him some good smelling colonge and body wash for a special event or if there isnt one close enough than make one up! lol
@ergg78 (344)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 07
Hmmm.. yeah, it's bad if we hurt their feelings. I assume that, if we express in a soft manner, it won't really hurt them but just embarrass them a little. But normally, if im going out for a date or going out with others, chewing gums is always in stock for me. If they have garlic breath, i will just smile and offer my chewing gums. You should always bring your chewing gums with you on an important date. Consider it as a backup as it help you to clean your teeth and freshen your breath. :P Hope this help.. good luck to you toolfan
@jenbatres (799)
• United States
2 Apr 07
It is your responsibitity to tell your partner. Wouldn't you want to know if you have bad breath? There is a nice way to tell your partner, you just have to learn how. If I was your partner, I would be hurt that you didn't tell me and left me go out with bad breath. Best of luck.
@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
2 Apr 07
I have no problem telling my husband that he needs to brush his teeth or use a breath mint. I would hope too that he would be comfortable enough to tell me if I needed to brush! Why be miserable and why risk having them offend someone else! I would want to be told!
@xfallenxlostx (2074)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Well, i am pretty blunt and if i find someone's breath offensive and i am close to them, i will politely tell them. It's all in HOW you say it.
Sit our wife down and say something like "Sweetie, i love you and i love to kiss you and be around you. However, after going to the garlic restaurant, you come back smelling so strongly that it makes my eyes water and is hard to be around for a couple of days. Would you please limit your visits to this place?"She SHOULD be understanding. If not, then you have done all you can do and you have done it politely as well. i don't see a reason for her to not understand Good luck!
@natalie1981 (1995)
• Singapore
2 Apr 07
Yes, just do it sweetly. Like maybe hug her first, kiss her on the cheek and pretend to sniff the air, casually say something like, "do you smell garlic?" something like that. :)
@NBABlogger (249)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
Nope, I don't tell my partner/s if she/he/they has/ve bad breath. Especially here in college, where you're making so many works that you are forgetting to brush your teeth or even taking a bath.