Do you baby talk with your baby or kids or pet?
By 2bugerboys
@2bugerboys (752)
United States
October 18, 2006 4:41pm CST
I personally do not like it, it drives me nuts to hear others do it. I just want to correct the words they are making sound babyish. I think that kids see their parents as a role model of how to talk-so I hope that kids aren't going to scoowow shounding aww baby wike!
41 responses
@HemaSrini (435)
• India
19 Oct 06
Yes. I was also thinking like you itself. But when I became a mother people started instructing me to talk to the baby as it hears to us. Yes, I started reading story books, seeing the beautiful smiling baby photo, and I went to my job (IT) till the day he was born. So, when he was born he was blessed with the greatest smile which many people lack in today's modern world and always he will keep on telling mom, i want a computer.
Probably you will also understand it when you or somebody in your family face it. - Hema.
@Weasel_Sponge (1069)
• Canada
20 Oct 06
I don't know about the words we use, but the pitch/modulation of our voice and softness in speaking many of us adopt around babies can be considered instinctual. Very young children who are introduced to a baby for the first time will often "ooh" and "awe" in a gentle voice even if they don't make up words...it's been refered to as "motherese". Seriously, it's quite interesting, and not necessarily something we are conscious of. It is perhaps something ingrained in humans as a species, much like the ability to learn language.
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I do it all the time though the doctors say its bad. My kids are 8 and 4 (boy and girl). I spoke to them like that since they were born. My son started talking very clearly at the age of 1 yr 8 months and my daughter started saying mama, dada, eeiya (grand pa) when she was only 8 months. Now she talks like a parrot. I'm not challenging the doctors or whoever think it is bad to baby talk, but I personally think its does not harm a child's talking. This is what I think please.
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Well thank you for your input, but don't you feel a little embarrased when other adults hear you talk that way? When ever I hear adults talking that way it embarrases ME just to hear it.
@Weasel_Sponge (1069)
• Canada
20 Oct 06
I'm more embarrassed for people who mispronounce or misuse words who aren't aware that they are doing it.
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Silly is my thoughts exactly, but not fun silly-sorry. I think that you are hurting your child by talking that way.
@chihouse (213)
• United States
20 Oct 06
shame on me for uttering sounds? are you all stuipid?? we are talking infants, and dogs. in case you didn't know, we first recognize pitches and sound waves/veriation. don't be so hard on kids to acheive some crazy level of perfection, it's no good for them.
notice that I did not say that I only speak to children with "baby talk" I have lots of younger siblings and thanks to our group effort they all speak distinctly, clearly, and correctly. In fact because we are black and we live on the west side of Chicago( in the U.S) whites upon speaking to us have labeled us articulate( as if we should'nt know how to speak correct english). so liven up and live a little. things won't all go down the drain cause you didn't talk like an un-abridged dicitionary the first seconds you child was in our arms!
@Sheila_Abram (1908)
• United States
18 Oct 06
No, I talk to them speaking clearly. My grandaughter is say words already. And I think it is because my daughter spoke to her while she was still in the womb. God Bless
@4monsters4me (2569)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I do both. It depends on what I am doing with the baby. If we are just going about our daily routine I will usually just talk normal to her. But if we are playing I might do a little baby talk, especially if she starts squealing and "talking" along with me. She is 6 1/2 months old. I did this the same way with my other 3. My oldest was talking clearly by 1 1/2. My son was using sentences by the time he was 1 and was speaking as well as his 3 year old sister before he turned 2. But my younger daughter didn't say her first word until 16 months and only knew 2 words at 18 months. She still doesn't speak all that clearly and she will be 4 in three weeks. I doubt that has anything to do with my use of baby talk with her. All kids are different and develop differently.
@4monsters4me (2569)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Oh, I know what it means. When she starts squealing and babbling, I not only immitate her to encourage her to speak more but I revert to baby talk. Everything comes out squeaky and silly sounding.
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
19 Oct 06
When I say baby talk, I mean saying words you know how to say in a childish way, not clearly. I have read that it is good to make the same kind of sounds that your baby makes to talk with them and go back and forth with them. I do this with my 6 1/2 month old. Mostly it sounds like this, AHhhhhhhhhhh, ahhhhhhhhhhh. I am encouraging him to make the sounds that he does know how to make, and he will advance from there.
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
19 Oct 06
There is a difference between being goofey and baby talking, they can be separate.
@dollar669 (569)
• Canada
19 Oct 06
Helllll NO
I completely agree with you its annoying and foolish. Children lean there basic launguare sounds from birth to 6 months. there fore if your only using a feqw baby tones with them it will be ahrder fo rthem yto learn launguage skills later on. Also if you tell them big word like "be gentle" or " please don't touch that" instead of "nana" or whatever your child will grow up with a bigger vocablary and better understanding of life, and there for will be able to learn faster.
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Yes, I think using REAL words is a big help in learning a language and vocabulary. If you make up your own words it's just going to confuse the child.
@caressbunch24 (120)
• United States
20 Oct 06
I do, I am horible with my littlest child with the baby talk, but to me it is hard to use big words that your child wont understand either
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
22 Oct 06
Large words that they won't understand? Well they won't understand them at all if you keep on baby talking. I don't mean to offend you. I have a baby now and I talk to him with normal words from the dictionary-and not made up words.
@dawnwv30 (63)
• United States
20 Oct 06
I do it with my kids. When they are babies and just learning to make sounds we mimic each other and they love it! Then when they are learning to talk we shorten the words until they can get the hang of the whole word thing. For instance, right now bottle is BABA. As soon as my son is comfortable with that then we will make it longer into bottle. It makes it easier for me to understand what my children are saying and so far they have all learned to talk quite well. Hey, if it makes you happy and amuses your children...why not do it? Life is too short to have people being so anal over such a small thing!
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
22 Oct 06
I don't agree with shortening the words into baby talk, such as Baba. The baby will get use to saying it that way and you will also get use to that word and I dought that parents will extend the word to the fullness. I think that everyone should talk normal and baby talk should not even be used. Now talking with a different a different tone, softer or higher pitch is different then making up words for things that already have words. Why confuse kids, the world is hard enough.
@AprilNicole1983 (564)
• United States
28 Oct 06
I don't talk baby talk, but the pitch in my vioce softens and goes higher. It's not something I'm even aware of most the time and I know everyone else in my family does that as well.
@mandidoodles (56)
• United States
22 Oct 06
First of all.. talking baby talk to a baby is fine.. it helps them learn how to coo and gurgle and start talking.. i have 3 kids.. my oldest is 8 years old and speaks fine as a matter of fact all 3 of my kids are advanced for their age.
if some one wants to talk baby talk to their baby, let them.. it is their child, not yours.
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
28 Oct 06
I guess when I say baby talk I mean saying things in a childish way. I agree with you that the cooing and gurgle sounds are good for babies to converse back and forth. But when the babies start talking wrong because they have been taught to say things in a childish way that makes me crazy.
@cuddlebug79705 (2003)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I did every now and then when my son was first born, but since my husband was gone in the military and I was always alone with my baby I stated talking to him like a regular person. It helped me get through the days, even though he didn't understand what I was saying, it was still nice to carry on a conversation, no matter how one sided it was. :-)
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
19 Oct 06
You should talk to them that way, like a person, because that is what they are and will learn and grow into. Good job, it does take one day at a time to get through those days alone with the kids.
@2bugerboys (752)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Yes, it's so degrading of yourself and whomever you are talking to.
@marymaejazmine83 (470)
• Philippines
21 Dec 06
sometimes.. but not always. because they said that baby talking is not good for babies..
@speakeasy (4171)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Only when I am trying to coax them out of a bad mood. It makes them laugh.
@kris182_2000 (5469)
• Canada
21 Dec 06
Who cares really?
I have pets that I talk to. I think baby talk is fine up until children reach a certain age and can actually understand what's being said. With pets, who cares, they don't understand anyways.
@villageanne (8553)
• United States
8 Jan 07
When my first child was born. I did baby talk to her for a few weeks but it just didnt feel right so I stopped and did not do it with my other child. I wanted them to learn the correct way of speaking and if I spoke baby talk, how were they going to learn to speak correctly