i love friendster but i have to delete my profile..

Philippines
April 1, 2007 9:42pm CST
I love friendster but i have to delete my profile because my partner and i always have arguments interms of accepting friends..so i decided to make my own profile instead of sharing with her? is that good idea? to just keep my communications with some of my friends...
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bettyrose20
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
well, it seems that your partner is somewhat insecure and experiencing low self-confidence evidenced by her jealousy (re:having arguments with you). and if she is too jealous for you in accepting some friends, do you think its a good idea in creating your own? i think it will just heightened her insecurities. and it will create m ore arguments. Think about it.
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mauier113
@mauier113 (688)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
It's better to have your own profile to avoid conflict. friendster is something personal to keep you in touch with friends. It's the best solution, era.
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gegegelay
@gegegelay (933)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
Omg.. are you serious about your gf?! Just because of your friends in your friendster account, she argues with you? Hmm.. I think she's being too overpossessive. If she loves you, then she must trust you. I don't think what you did was wrong, you gotta be honest with her, though. Tell her how you feel about it.
purplecyreene
@purplecyreene (92)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
In the first place, why do you have to share your account with her or let her know your password in your accounts?It's your fault.You should've known it before you share accounts.It's a private property I guess you should respect each other's privacy.My husband and I have our own account we are both connected and my ex but never argue with it.
purplecyreene
@purplecyreene (92)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
In the first place, why do you have to share your account with her or let her know your password in your accounts?It's your fault.You should've known it before you share accounts.It's a private property I guess you should respect each other's privacy.My husband and I have our own account we are both connected and my ex but never argue with it.
annexxv
@annexxv (9)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
. .ye ryt . . i agree w/ dat . . in my past relationship . .me and my bf or should i say my X-bf , ,always argue with comes to accepting friends , ,he doesnt want moe to accept guy friends . . and ive got 600 friends , ,he let me delete all guys in there , ,imagine , ,ive got patience to do that , .anyway , , i think its being selfish . . we should trust our partners ,right? . . that act is really unfair . .
bonitabiloxi
@bonitabiloxi (127)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
Good for you that he now belongs in the past... Possessive or insecure partners restrict, if not totally block your growth. If he acted like that w/ friendster... how will he treat you or what will he make you give up in the future w/ respect to things that really matter to you? You deserve someone who won't rob you of your freedom and sense of independence. :-)
nfhs79
@nfhs79 (861)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 07
Oo what a pity. I think you should have ur own profile. no worries. You can keep it urself. I myself have my own profile. and my husband also have his own profile. Just have ur own profile to keep ur good relationship with friends.
bonitabiloxi
@bonitabiloxi (127)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
I think it's a good idea. You should connect to other people. Fighting over friendster is so petty. It could be indicative of some issue or problem in a relationship though. If both of you are serious about making your relationship grow, maybe you should deal with the root-cause of the jealousy/insecurity or whatever it is.