are you a giver or a taker?

@djmarion (4898)
Philippines
April 2, 2007 1:04am CST
in relationship, whats your role? are you the giver or the taker?
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8 responses
@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Apr 07
If one of these is absent in a relationship is it worth calling it a relationship?
@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Apr 07
Sorry for the repetition it some times happen in mylot.
@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Apr 07
If one of these is absent in a relationship is it worth calling it a relationship?
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
you maybe right, a relationship should be two way traffic... thanks for the response.
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
I think I'm both but when it comes to my loved ones, as much as I can I would really try to give because I know I will be helping them a lot.. But I would also weigh out a situation whether I should give or take, because things and situations are sometimes unstable..
• India
2 Apr 07
hm.............m wht i can say to my beloved ones i am a giver and for others i am a taker
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
ohh, what is it that you take from others? lol
@rica_12 (93)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
i can say that im a giver cause someone special i give his freedom to love some one even we have a son..and i can say also im a taker, i take a lot of love with my family and son and friends lol...but its good if you'll be a giver so that the karma you'll be get is a good karma,..and its better if you'll be a taker and a giver..lol...
@julaqq (141)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
In a relationship, At first I take the role as a giver. I can give it all until I'm exhausted. then my beloved would take over and become a giver himself to me. It's always a cycle. I guess you could say that it's an equal role for both partners. We cannot be a giver or taker for long because each of us has a need to fulfill. As long as both of you can fulfill each other's needs, the relationship will last long.
@rjdreyes (157)
• Japan
2 Apr 07
Well, i'll be straight to my answer. It does depends in the matter of situation or view point. Like for example, me and my girlfriend out of the mall, she would loved to buy a stuff of fingurine, and i know she be happy if i buy it to her. So in my view point, i'll do this make my girlfriend happy the same time i'll be also glad. I can say i'm in both ways i am a giver and a taker. My girlfriend gave me happiness when she did something or anything that could make me feel happy, and the same thing i gave her happiness more than she gave me.
• Australia
2 Apr 07
I try to give as much as I can but my partner gives 100 times more than I do. I guess I am a bit of both :)I always find ways to show him I love him :)