friends in love

Falling in love for a friend, a bestfriend or a friend closed in your berks gives you an advantage. Yes, it is. Why? It is because since you have known himwell, you can readily accept him as what he is. Consider this one: you already knew all his goods and negatives. Despite of all his bads, still you are his friend. What more if you will be more than friends. What I am pointing out here is that when you both will be into a serious relationship, it would be less burdensome for you both to adjust for each attitude and personality. The fact that you've already known each other for so long, then adjustment stage would be kinda easy. Next, how will the relationship goes on? Your treatment for each other will be in a package. You already have a best buddy at the same time having a boyfriend. Got it? Your relationship will be like treating each others as berks but the plus factor here is that there is still an added special something (feelings) for both of you. Well, that's nice knowing it. But for some, it doesn't seem right to have their bestfriend as boyfriend. It just that what is worst about it is when you two split up, there is a possibility that the friendship built outside your special relationship might be damage, or worst destroyed. But that depends on the people involved in the relationship.

I think this could be one of two things, a match made in heaven or the exact opposite! Sometimes the person we are looking for is right under our noses, sometimes, some people are better in just being friends!

Before, I never really believed that two best friends could fall in love with each other coz' I mean, they're good friends and that's just it. But then I guess I was wrong. Why? Coz' I fell in love with my best friend and he also fell in love withe me ;) I guess i've learned that it's good to start as good friends coz' you're so comfortable to each other that it won't be hard for you 'if ever' you fall for each other. With my situation, it is an advantage coz' I know him pretty well in the first place and we really started out as good friends. He wasn't the guy I was looking for coz' I thought that friendship is all there is, but if the Lord intended for us to be together, then we are meant for each other ;)

Yes and no. It is an advantage when he feels the same about you, therefore you can have a great boyfriend, as he is already your friend. Your relationship may be excellent as you know him and identify with him. It might be bad as if he doesn't feel love, it might even ruin your friendship. He can feel bad around you, knowing you feel something different for him and feel uncomfortable. It depends on the person, but honestly I think that if he really likes you as a friend he's not goin to ruin that friendship it just because you love him...

The person you fall in love will become your best friend anyways.