Someone's Stalking me!
By Greyh22
@Greyh22 (110)
Philippines
April 2, 2007 9:18am CST
This happens all the time. I don't know what to do anymore. I was walking home from school, when someone texted me. He asked, "Why are you out so late?" There was no one in sight. I was terrified! I rushed to our house to get away from him. I don't know what's his plan. I don't know what's his intention, but I'm really getting scared. This happened 3 weeks ago. I was out walking my dog. It seems like someone is following me. So I went home. When I arrived home, Someone called me, he said "Are you in a rush? I want to see you longer" I asked who he was but he didn't say anything. Since that time, he's always texting me. He knows every place I've been. He knows what time I'm out of our house and where I am at the moment. I'm really scared. I don't know what to do. What if he has bad plans? help...
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4 responses
@DesignDiva (379)
• United States
28 Apr 07
You ask if he has bad plans...well not to scare you even more, but I don't really see how any of his plans could be good ones. I see you posted this awhile ago, so I hope that things have calmed down and that he isn't harassing you anymore. That's just absolutely terrifying.
I'm in a similar situation, which is why I was searching for stalking discussions on here. However, I know mine. Not sure if that's scarier or not. Anyways, if you could respond as to how you handled it and any tips, I'd really appreciate it.
I really hope you've let your friends know about this and have several people checking in on you to make sure you're okay. You can never be too careful...
@DesignDiva (379)
• United States
6 May 07
Wow, how did he know you had cops there? Gosh, I'm so glad you did! There's no telling what he would have done if he knew you were alone.
Is he still bothering you? I hope not.
Mine seems to have gotten better...but to be honest, the fact that I haven't seen or heard from him lately actually is making me more scared. I'm afraid that my confronting him has just made him angrier and now that he's possibly scheming up something. And you're right about being extra careful. I'm not sure either of our stalkers is "smarter" than us, they probably just have a more twisted mind that works entirely different from ours.
Take care of yourself...
@Greyh22 (110)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
thanks for your respond. When the stalker and I met, I was with some cops, but they are hiding. You know what the stalker told me? he said: "why are you with some cops? I won't do anything bad to you." That was on the phone. I didn't know how he saw the cops. It was frightening. So if you want some advice now, I can just advice one thing... Plan your actions carefully. You know why? because the stalker might outsmart you... It's really bad. Goodluck in everything friend...
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
Tell somebody about this. Then make sure you are never alone especially at nights. I don't have any idea either as to what he is up to. Perhaps you can text him so you can meet. I am sure that he is an avid fan or yours to be having so much patience to be following you at all times and knowing all the things that you are doing.
@DesignDiva (379)
• United States
28 Apr 07
Whatever you do, DO NOT meet him alone. My advice would be to alert the cops, then see if they can help you set up some sort of sting operation. That way, you'd have trained professionals that would be able to handle the situation if anything went wrong.
I personally don't think you should meet this person. He's obviously obsessed about you, and if you give in and meet him, he'll think that all his pressuring worked. Then he may pressure you and get even more aggressive once he knows you...he'll think he can make you love him, or something.
Be careful!
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@webdrifter (83)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 07
I don't think there is any good in posting this in MyLot. Anyway I would suggest you keep all the text messages he send to you. Always let people you know at trust of your whereabouts, where you going and when will you be back. And lastly you might want to go to the authorities, the police may be, and told them about the phone calls and also show them the text messages.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
I believe that this is a good advice to consider. The authorities might be able to help you with your problem.
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@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
5 May 07
erk..maybe u should change your number? try not going out of the house for one day and see if there's anyone suspicious around?
