Please Help Me..I'm so bothered.......

Philippines
April 3, 2007 2:34am CST
jaz wanna ask for advices....please...help..here it goes... i have this friend(turtle)..we are in a club and we usually hang out together...he has his barkada and i have mine...we only had our friendly time when we're in our club office...we always talk about some personal stuffs when we're together...but if we have some friends around...we, i mean..I....always distance myself to him...i'm shy everytime when i'm with him..especially with his friends..he always tease us up..and being a top4 in all our batch of nursing students in our school...a very accomplished person..and a very talented one...i can't help myself not to fall for him...but now...i always make a gap between me and him..but he's the one who's approaching me...and i can't resist not to talk to him..i thik he felt the gap last week when i wont sit beside him...and he told me to sit closely..am i RUDE??!?!?is this the right thing?!?!?...i mean...i slightly am falling for him...but i'm not gonna let it happen..plus!hes in Asection...but me...a Csection...well..not much of a gap coz there are 30 sections in our level...and we both gained a dean's list this year...but he's way too better than me..and his admirers are very many!!!!!lotsa admirers really....even my friends and my classmates adored him...oh man.......
2 responses
leechamp
@leechamp (186)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
hi. here's my advice. don't avoid him. the fact that he is showing interest in you by way of trying to catch your attention or trying to go near you is something to be happy about, at least he is not indifferent. Try to be friendly for the start, this is usually the beginnning of any good and lasting relationships. What happens later, just let it unfold as you go along. Being in a group of the tops in class is something that would help you make yourself strive more for excellence, who knows, you would end up just keeping up or levelling up with him. Good luck! Smile and be happy each you feel close with him, or even just within his eyesight is good enough as long as you can feel he is really there...hmmmm.
korvinkate
@korvinkate (283)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
thankzzz..i really feel well now..i'm happy for our friendship...i'm happy for everything!!!and now..i'm trying to know my self...being a MANHATER..i hope that it's not bad..i hate some of them...but not all....i'm lucky to have a friend like him...but you know that there are people teasing us and think that we have a mutual understanding...i dont like it...how many times that we told them that..
leechamp
@leechamp (186)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
teasing is part and parcel of any relationships that you cultivated, you just have to be yourself, relax and try to enjoy the perks of being teased, smile and feel the high that people could recognize feelings around you.
scott_zhu
@scott_zhu (24)
• China
3 Apr 07
Do anything you want to do, then, you will never regret in future. according to your descriptions, i get following messages: 1. he is handsome. 2. he is good at studies. 3. so many girl love or like him. 4. you don't have enough confidence. 5. you are pretty(i think, otherwise, he will never care you). so, you can do anything you want to do, but, you should think it clear that you two may be no longer hang out together finally. can you admit the badest result?
korvinkate
@korvinkate (283)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Well,,,yeah,,you're right..but the last one....i dunno..i dont see myself that pretty..it's really sad and quite a pain for me to distance myself from him..but i thinkits the only way not to fall for him..plus..his admirers are staring so creepy at me...