boys... please answer this!!
By missLC123
@missLC123 (88)
October 18, 2006 9:16pm CST
i need you help.. i dated this guy last year for 8 months.. and i broke up with him casue i didnt feel myself around him... well when school started back.. we started liking each other again.. and i was myself for the first couple of weeks .... well now.. im starting to go back to my original self... and now everytime i am around him.. he gets really quite.. and i feel ackward.. what should i do.. i want to be myself around him but since hes 2 years older.. i feel really stupid being around him acting myself... HELP ME... i love him soo much and i dont want my personally to ruin waht we have.. i am a fun girl to be around .. but when we are together .. i dont want to make a fool of myself....
2 responses
@dmacdonald111 (530)
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19 Oct 06
I am guessing you are quite young by that one. If you feel that you can't be yourself around him, then he is not the one for you. Perhaps just be friends as you may both open up more. It sounds like you really are worried about how you are acting, this could also be that you are worrying too much about the situation of you two going out again, that you are not just relaxing and enjoying what you actually have. Hope this helps :)
@missLC123 (88)
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19 Oct 06
well i tried breaking up with him.. but when we saw each other again... we started all back over... we tried being friends..... but we wanted to be more than friends..
@dmacdonald111 (530)
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19 Oct 06
That's what it comes down to again. If you can't be yourself with him and you don't want to take it slow enough to be friends first, then you'll have to end it. That's the only way. A relationship is not a relationship if you cannot be yourself.
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
19 Oct 06
But if you can't be yourself around him why be with him? You should not have to change yourself and personality for him. You won't be happy in the long run. Just be yourself if he doesn't like it there will be plenty more guys to follow!
