what if the sister of your significant other is a devil's advocate?
By prettyfeigh
@prettyfeigh (231)
Philippines
April 3, 2007 4:55am CST
have you been in this situation like the sister of your boyfriend/girlfriend is not in favor of you and she's doing everything she can so you both will break up or give up with the relationship and she even snoops on my bf email to know what's going on and sometimes pretend as my bf's mom or my bf's ex-gf. ive tried to talked to my bf about this matter and he's saying that as of the moment he's really jealous of my bf attention and she's afraid that i might take away his attention away from her. Gosh! she's old enough to understand things, she's 23 so i think she should broaden her mind and understand that her brother needs someone in life..please share me your insights and what i need to do on this situation.
2 responses
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
3 Apr 07
Hi prettyfeigh this has happened to me once before when I was alot younger. I think some people get jeolous of the things or people you have in your life. And to me I find jeolousy is not very becoming. I suggest you stay your ground and fight for whom your fond of and it will pay off in the end.
@prettyfeigh (231)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
hello terryz! thanks for your response, greatly appreciate it.Well, i don't have any choice but to stay with the situation and fight for our love..i just hope he will be strong enough to face this..thanks anyway
@nkkyluv (83)
• Nigeria
3 Apr 07
I've never really been in this situation before but i have friends that have been there. It could be very disheartening to know that ur bf/gf's sister is not in support of your relationship. Most times, it has to do with their upbringing, they may have had a closely knitted relationship with one another in the family and find it difficult to accept another person whom they fear may be taking their brother's or sister's time. It is advisable that u be more tolerant on this & always have a positive mind towards them, if the sister is someone u can talk to, let her know how much u luv her brother & feel her brother needs a partner in his life, try to avoid any confrontation with her which she may desire.
@prettyfeigh (231)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
hi nkkyluv! thanks for the pieces of advice. You know what during the times that he's using my bf's msn account im sending her a message saying he will still be my bf baby and i won't take him away from her nor his attention. i understand that she's my babe's baby and that her career is not at stake because he will still be his manager for her career (they are both model, but her manager/handler is my bf). i just can't understand her because she's using my bf's ex-gf saying that she's pregnant and im ruining their relationship. it's really hard on my part. thanks for enlightening me..i really appreciate it..
