why is that some ppl can not get girlfriends

the guy should be understanding and fun to be with. sense of humor is very important :)

What a girl wants in a guy? All internal organs are nice, heh. But seriously, someone who will go out of their way to make them feel better. Someone who will actually listen, and not pretend to. Someone who is just like a best friend. And a love of tattoos and peircings would be nice in my case.

I think it's just the way they move abd behave that girls get attracted, and morover they must feel secure around you, I mean they must be confident you wouldn't misjudge their friendship, just be cool and when I said be cool, i meant it, don't pretend, hope you got me right!And morover have ur friends(boys) in close touch, that would boost the confidence on you

It all depends on the girl. Everyone is different so every girl might want something different in a guy. For me, I'd want a guy that has a good sense of humor and is honest and loyal with me. I'd want someone that is open minded and shares my interests and shares my religious and political views. I also find that it is necessary to have a spiritual connection with the guy. My SO has all of these qualities and I'm very lucky that I found him. Of course I'm only speaking for myself. Other girls might want something completely different.

Body language is very important. If you are confident and relax, you can attract a girl more easily. Don't brag and be a gentleman. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. Dress smart too. I don't mean that you should try to follow the latest trends (I don't go for those guys), but you should dress neatly. Don't look too nerdy. Gel up your hair or something when you go out. That will do nicely. Lastly don't ever look or be a cheapskate. Healthy amount of spending is ok.