Did she not say hello because I'm a lesbian?
By plumgirl33
@plumgirl33 (2)
United States
October 18, 2006 9:32pm CST
Today an girl I used to work with came to my job. She loudly said hi to everyone accept me. Now, when this girl was my co-worker, we rarely talked,mostly due to the fact that she's mean and rude, but we still said hi to each other sometimes. But today, not only did she not speak but she went out of her way to loudly speak to everyone except me. It could be because I'm a lesbian, but I have never made any passes at her, I'm not even attracted to her. I just wondered why she didn't say hello.
6 responses
@fpd1955 (2074)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I can't say that it is because you are a lesbian. I have neve had anyone ignore me from my past because of this.
It could be she was just trying to get your attention by not saying hi to you. People are strange. Maybe she wanted you to go up and say something to her about it, to initiate a conversation. Who knows, maybe she has a crush on you and didn't want to seem like she was "making a pass" at you. Maybe she doesn't even know you are a lesbian, she was being her old mean and rude self.
Who really knows? Don't read too much in to it. Just be yourself and try to enjoy your true friends.
@sallyxu126 (1184)
• China
19 Apr 07
I think you might be too sensitive.
Just be friendly to her ,
I think no problem even if you are a lesbian.
if she really mind, dont' worried about it ,too .
You never do wrong things, why have to be afraid of ?
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Who knows why people intentionally do things to be rude. More than likely she was just trying to ignore you and let you know she was doing it. Sounds like high school crap. I wouldn't worry about it. She sounds immature
@sharkster (60)
•
24 Oct 06
She must be a very unhappy person to target someone solely for that reason. All bullies generally are disappointed with life and themselves. Don't let her affect you, be proud, hold your head up and make the choice to ignore HER instead! ;-)
