How to be stay sexy and feel to be beautiful? And you know already a mother.

They all sound & look sexy to me. First & foremost it's how you view yourself that's important. Its how you projected yourself anyway to others that gains you the comment on all those that you have queried with. An age old wondering of men, what is it with women & their vanity? But also you have to watch what are excess - fats & what are too less - bones. They are just universally not acceptable to common standards of admiration. but love strikes its arrow all this things are just suddenly not visible. Love is an all equalizer & i mean all. Just a point of view of mine, just keep thinking sexy & pleasant things, they'll be projected the same by your audience.