Are 5 year olds too young for a gameboy?
By jennysp8
@jennysp8 (855)
United States
April 3, 2007 1:04pm CST
I was watching a few children my daughters age hanging out before her Karate class. And I noticed that at least two of them (age 5) have those little gameboy handheld systems. While I am not judging their parents...I just can not imagine giving my 5 year old daughter a game boy but must admit I was impressed how skilled these kids are on these things. She is much too young for that and her play time should be spent on more educational games or play time that requires an imagination. I would feel different if they were educational games but they arent. The parents have a hard time pulling them off the things when class starts. I just figure they have plenty of time for stuff like that when they grow older..age 10 and up maybe.
What are your thoughts on this?
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23 responses
@silvermoonmyst (943)
• United States
3 Apr 07
I really hate it when parents give young children games like that.
And i mean game systems. My sister is 10 and she got her first game system at 6. She now has like 5 different systems, tons of games and shes always playing them. Always. You have to force her to go outside in the summer so that she actually does something more then sit and stair at the tv. I know that I didnt have that stuff growing up, but her dad things she needs it to keep herself busy?? Thats really silly. Kids are creative and inventive They dont know what bored is untill we teach them the concept. They will find a way to occupy themselves.
That being said my 3 year old has a little system that when he touches the pen to the book it either reads the story, ot tells the word or sounds it out. Or sings a song. THAT is different because he repetes the words and hes actually learning something off of it. He rememers those stories.
But a system of any kind for a kid? Please no!
@silvermoonmyst (943)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Its a toddler LeapPad. You can get them at any walmart lol. He adores the thing. We have books for nemo and barney, cars and pooh, dinosaurs, I know i have more. But the system was around 40 and each book is 10-15 depending if they are on sale or whatnot.
I really like having it, he gets such a kick out of it and calls it his laptop.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Before I encountered this discussion, I used to think that it is okay. A lot of children in my neighborhood play quite much with this game boy. Anyway, the good thing about handheld gaming things, is the games which can be found therein are all within the control of their parents. This is a situation which is very much different from the things going with the pc with an internet connection. In this case, the parents cannot control how the kids go about with the doings of their kids.
I can remember that I allowed my kids to have handheld games since they were very young. My eldest was only 3 years old and the second child was 1 and a half only. Why, I'd surely earn your ire here. However, I never noticed that they no longer socialized. In fact, they used to play around with neighbors everyday and there are times when I played with them when I had the time.
Please, don't scold me. But, I don't know why you say those kids cannot be easily separated from their gaming. Perhaps if I were the mother, I'd surely tell my kids about the hours of the day when I will allow then to do it. That kind wherein the time of their gamings will be limited.
@jennysp8 (855)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I can't speak for others - but I don't want to scold others. I guess what I mean mean I say that can't be pulled from the games - isn't the fault of the child or the game - - but the fault of the parent. As they have used these games for so long as a babysitter and entertainment that their child doesn't want to do anything else and the parent isn't proactive enough to do something about a mistake they made in not limiting the type of game or how long to play it.
Some parents allow these games - some don't. And I am one of the ones who don't - not at least until they are older. There is just so many better things they can be doing.
And I'm all about learning games & I know with the day & age we are in - alot of learning games come in the form of game systems and computers. So, I do sit with my daughter on the computer and go on NickJr and others and play those learning games together. But she isn't allowed to be on the computer too long and I never leave her alone with it.
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
11 Apr 07
I agree with you completely . This is kind of young and they should be spending their time learning something educational rather then the games they have on these gameboys as some of them only teach violence and I don't agree with this .
Also , as the children get older what are the parents going to buy to beat something that already cost so much money . If a child becomes used to such expensive gifts at a very early age they will expect more when they are older and it will be harder to explain to them why they are not able to have what they want .
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I don't believe 5 is to young for a gameboy. A child learns hand eye cordinationby playing.Now having said that I buy my younger child the more eduacational games that teach colors, shapes. and ABC's.
As a parent its our job to make sure that their not abusing their gameboy time. Mine is limited to 30 minutes a day if they have all their chores and homework done.There isn't a day that goes by that my children don't get physical activty.
@jennysp8 (855)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I can understand that I guess if the games are educational and they are getting something out of it other then hand/eye cordination. Because kids could go outside and play ball and learn that cordination that way....I think it's great that if someone allows these types of games they should be limited on the amount of time. Good job KissThis!
But most parents I see don't do this and their child is sucked into these games and they are not educational.
@spiderlizard22 (3444)
• United States
17 Nov 07
I had a friend who played the gameboy when he was five. Back then there wasn't any eductional video games but in the present there are eductional video games you just have to search hard for it.
@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I think its fine as long as the games arent violent..my 4 year old plays with my nieces when we are together and it actually is great for fine motor skills..and hand and eye cordination..but i also know that there are many kids that arent ready for that and just cant do it..so i guess it just depends on the child..but i have no problem with him playing with it.,
@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I do think that is kind of early for allowing a child to be playing a gameboy. I think more emphasis needs to be placed on reading and speaking and other educational things. The gameboy can come later but I think at 5 it is too early unless it is an educational game. I definitely agree with you there.
@gypsylady28 (945)
• United States
4 Apr 07
My son received one when he was 5 yrs. old. I found games that were age appropriate for him. Tonka, Dora, etc. They do have them out there, they are just hard to find. We were having to many fights over our step-daughters gameboy that her mom had sent her for Christmas, Walmart had them on clearance, so I got him one. He plays it occassionally in the evenings, but he is more into playing outside, or playing with his toys. It is great for long car rides and waits at the doctors office and such.
@sparling (178)
• Canada
4 Apr 07
my kids play a video game called v tech smile. its all educational and you can get games from disney movies. they are not to expensive.$25 most i think, wich is rather inexpensive compared to the other games.the controllers are nice and big and colorful, its great. oh yeah my boys are 5 and i think this is perfect for them. when they go with there dad they play the playstation and it makes me crazy. but what can i do when they're with him. goodluck
@TeeandMe (104)
• United States
4 Apr 07
My 5 year old sometimes plays with his older sister's Gameboy and I don't see any harm in it as long as he dosen't spend alot of time on it. My kids have a Vsmile which has a bunch of learning games for it. So they get their learning games, and they play other things besides the game boy!
@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
3 Apr 07
My son is almost 5 and he has a gameboy. He doesn't play it obsessively, but he enjoys it. And it's been very good to have when we've been in the car for a long drive, or waiting for an appointment or something like that. I think it is helping his hand eye coordination a bit, although I would never claim that this had anything to do with getting it. He also plays some educational games on the computer, under supervision. I think that moderation is the key to many things.
@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I think it is kinds crazy myself, but I know little kids (age 5 & 6) that are great at those games!! I wouldn't buy them for my kids until they get older though, I agree with you!!
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
4 Apr 07
for xmass or birthday if its expensive
or they could work to get the money
if they really really want it, have been working a few months saving, etc. Then maybe do matching funds and help him get it.
@Writerbob (572)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Absolutely too young! It sets up a pattern of wanting more and more distractions. I didn't let my son have one until 13, and that was after several years of pleading
@sweeetkisses2 (269)
• United States
3 Apr 07
my opion i dont think they are to young,now it would be a different story if a 3 year old was playing one because i dont think they would know what one is maybe the 5 year old kids know what they are doing all kids are different in all ways.