my friend is in love with a girl who already has a boy friend???
By harsha_kak
@harsha_kak (241)
India
8 responses
@schrotian (83)
• China
4 Apr 07
i think he is not guilty.
love is blind.everyone has its right.
but i think your friend maybe sorrow because the girl donot love him.
i think the best way is your friend have a try,if the girl seems no feeling ,please loose her,otherwise he is lucky.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
4 Apr 07
Well it is natural for a person to fall in love with another person. There are lots of love that cannot be brought into sucess or become true. Love starts during the early age like school boy crush or school girl crush. As time passes like every wound healed, the love also heals. I think he will probably forget the girl he loves after sometime when he realizes that he cannot get her. All he needs is time. When we get a cut in our hands or legs a wound appears, but as time passes the wound heals and there will be no evidence of scar same way it will also will be okay for him. I think you should help him to concentrate on other things than on the love that will not be successful or on a girl who already has a boyfriend.
@nancyrowina (3850)
•
3 Apr 07
You can't blame your friend for falling in love we don't choose who we fall in love with. if she already has a partner it must be very sad for your friend as he can't have her obviously, you should feel sorry for him.
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
4 Apr 07
well, do you think its wrong to love more than one person? Him loving her is alright. he would just have to be her friend and if things with her and her current bf go wrong then he can see if they could become more than friends. friendships always last longer
@bongmix (267)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
yes, its ok , its a natural feeling, but once your friend make a move to court the girl well thats the no coming in. no because think about it this way, if his girlfriend has another lover what will he think what will be his reaction. for me as long as he is not making a move to court her thats ok with me.