is the second marriage really the best marriage or is your first lol??

My first marriage lasted 30 years,before I decided there had to be more to life than what I was getting.We married very young at 16 it really did go well for most of these years and than after the kids were grown and gone things changed.I am now married to the most wonderfull man I think he droped right out of heaven so for me the second marriage is the best.

Well its not the marriage that acttualy makes a difference, it would be the person who is with you,if the person is good, understanding, caring, humorus and probably talk to you about a lot, which makes a serious relationship work amazing and fun, then you would enjoy being with each other.

marriage is a gamble for me and its not perfect...im married for 25 years now and its still going strong i could say that im lucky or were both lucky for finding each other and made it work.....im happy for you too for finding again another one i hope it will work forever for you congrats then..

well I was not so lucky I have two bad marriages under my belt. my first one I took 10 years of beatings and my second one after 7 years of being with a dumba** he had knee surgery and I took care of him and when he got well I found out that he had been cheating on me while I was working he was running around on me I think I could of broke his knee again. so my second one lasted 10 years also but now I have the best boyfriend in the world he is a real gentelman the last of a good breed I say. he even opens doors for me and he is all about doing for me and not himself, what ever I want he get or does for me and its just the little things that mean alot. Its like I have a birdhouse/feeders/flowergarden that I just love the birds it is my hobbie and if it comes to wanting something about my birds done then he will do what ever it is to make it or get it for me he has made feeders for me made things to hang my feeders on and all that stuff. good luck with your guy that you are with now but as for me I say third time is a charm.

I think that a marriage that lasts is the best one, if the marriage fails its because one or both partners are not strong enough to overcome the obsticles. In love the best marriage truly is the one that outlasts time itself, don't you think?

My first husband would often hit me, I put up with it for nearly 20 years! my second husband is the most wonderful and caring man in the world, so yes second time around is sooooooooooo much better.

In general, I think if someone says that second marriage is better for him/her then she/he might be very immatured to understand marriage. As far as health condition is concerned marriage is a oath to support your partner and if in that condition someone refuges then he/she really doesn't deserve to be married. And you did the good thing and as you got a good partner that means God supported you and He supports good souls only. I'm fortunate in this respect that till now I didnot find my hubby self-centred. However I have many complaint against him but those are not very serious. One of those complaints is that he never takes me out for dinner on his own will I have to request him to do so. I have requested him to give me some jewellery and he refuged to do it now. But for bad conditions I am very secured with him.

I guess it depends on you. I only been married once and still am. I dont think i could married again. but Im happy for you to find love twice.

Wow! I am sorry to hear about your first marriage. I thought marriage was for better or for worse, so yes, he did sign up for it...LOL! In my situation I think third time is a charm. My first husband and I were very young and immature and we just weren't equipped to deal with each other, and yes, our marriage was set up for failure as well. My 2nd marriage was not what dreams were made of. He was not a driven man, very simple and not inclined to care for his family. We went from living in a beautiful townhome and had great jobs, he moved us to his moms and she lives in a small town in north Florida. I couldn't find work, he couldn't find work, he finally signed on with the prison up there, but we lost so much, we ended up losing our house up there and by the time we divorced he had us living in a 35 year old mobile home that was falling down around our ears. His priorities were out of whack, he kept giving money to his mom, he wouldn't fix the house we were living in, but was always off to fix the landlords problems. I finally found out why, they were having an affair! So, I say third time is a charm. My first husband is not going to be my third husband. I don't think we ever truly got over each other. He is career military, his priorities are in the right place and we have both grown up and know each other very well. We both share similar interests and priorities for the future. I have never been so happy!

Well,congratuations for your second happy marriage. Most people make a wrong choice in their first marriage.And when they choose their second husband or wife,they will be much careful and considerate.So most second marriage is better and happier than the first one. But there are also many unhappy second marriages.For example,some men discard their first and older wife and go to the arms of their more beautiful and younger lover.But after marry their lover,they found the first wife is the best.But it is too late. So it is depends.To have a happy and lasting marriage,we should be considerate and careful.

first of of congrats and best wishes,after 4yrs love i got married to my lover now we have a junior too, so in my opinion first one is the best one... i'm really happy, what i expected from that i'm getting...lol.......

For me the second is definetly the best...my first marriage i was way to young and my husband was way too unfaithful...but i have 2 great kids from it so thats okay...this time around there is so much more trust,love and honesty that iknow this one will last forever

This is my second marriage, and it is much better than my first marriage. My first husband is Portuguese, and his parents emigrated from Portugal, and as such, they were set in their old ways. I couldn't stand going over to their house, because I always felt nervous and felt that I wasn't good enough for their son. I got pregnant, and had a miscarriage, and it was shortly after the miscarriage that my first marriage fell apart. I love my current mother-in-law, and get along with her much better. And my husband and I have two children, and yes, we do have our little fights, but I can honestly say that I love him much more than my first husband. I sometimes feel like we were meant to be.

for me, whether it's the first, second or even how many times you marry, but you and your other half could not get along well, i think nothing is best. Marriage is a two way street. A couple has to work it out. If certain things cannot be met, how would you say that you are in a perfect marriage. If one's character cannot be tolerated by the other, do you think things would go the way they should be?

It's great to hear some good news about a second marriage, thanks for putting this on.

My second marriage is definitely much better than my first one was. The first was for all the wrong reasons and turned into a freaking nightmare. This one is what marriage was meant to be, and no more nightmares....:)

statistically the second ones tend to work better some learning and thinking and mistakes, then choosing better next time all 3 of my sibs are on thier second (depending on how you define marriage), for all of them the second one is better

i also know you r second was and is the best for you. Its clear to everyone how happy you make each other

no i think only first one for men and 2nd one for women..

Third time is a charm, lol. skip right over the first and second marriages and get right to the good stuff.