Why does me always avoid my lover?
By LeeBei
@LeeBei (56)
China
April 3, 2007 9:45pm CST
When I fell in love,I always wanted to avoid my lover who love me.I just wanted to stay alone.So we often argued whether we should stay together longer.
Now,When I want to fall in love, I'm afraid that I will repeat that again.I don't know why.Who can tell me?
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5 responses
@mr_morning (226)
• Malaysia
4 Apr 07
Hmm, it's seems really hard to answer this question because it's about your feeling, for me it's normal when you want to get alone sometime, but if you are trying to avoid your lover that mean trouble, maybe you just not love him anymore, don't have any feeling at him. From my experince when you love somebody you just want to get close to you lover always...
That is just my opinion from my expirence so don't take so seriously
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
4 Apr 07
I think you are confused at this time whether it is love or not. The main reason people avoids the people they love because of fear of being hurt or because of fear of losing the person they love. Fear and love are opposite. In the battle of love and fear only love wins. So I would suggest you to stay with the person you love as far as possible. Even if you have fear of hurt or fear of losing or fear of not coming to the expectation of your love give it a try. You cannot draw a picture until the pencil touch the paper. You cannot know whether he loves you or if its the correct relation until you spend the time together. Most times if you keep away from him he also gets unsecure. First you need to become good friends before becoming good lovers. Try to spend time together. Try to conqur fear because after the fear it is always win. Everyone feels fear in their life. When they try to get one step after it they reach sucess in life.
@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
My God! You're acting just like the girl that I love right now. I know you already saw my discussion about this.
Anyways, she is really like you because she keeps on avoiding me for an unknown reason.
What I can say to you is that whenever girls are avoiding us, it's kinda hard for us to accept that because it's like an insult especially when we already did all we can do to please a girl. Like I said on my discussion, it's really unfair.
But anyways, I just wish all the best for you and your lover. Take care always.
- Ron Reyes
www.ronreyes.co.nr
@schrotian (83)
• China
4 Apr 07
i feel it strange.
why do you have such feelings.
it that you have anything sorrow in your heart?
if it is not,i think you can go to the doctor.
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