So you want to be friends? Tell me why so we can be friends.

First I chose you to be my 1000th post. We have been friends for a few weeks. I like that you take time with your replys. I can count on you for good thoughts and knowledge

I have very few friends here on mylot.And i want to keep pecking in post after post on my friends instead of surfing for specific posts.I find lot of crap posts that i don't wanta comment on.And i ask requests for friends only if i find their posts sensible and suit my interests.Although there are other members who ask requests to be my friend.I haven't denied any requests so far but that doesn't mean i set the 'notify on' for all.I tend to be selective.Your 'new post notification' is also one that is set on,on my friends list.So keep posting.

i have alot of friends on my list and some cant bothered to answer my posts.ill only answer posts that my friends put up that i can answers.

Hello cool,I totally understand where you are coming from.I also have answered your discussions except for the last 3 days,I have been out of town,when I got home i had 300 on my e-mail..Having dial-up i could not catch up because my computer is just to slow.I like you and would like to continue being your friend.the ones i have not answered has been in the last 3 days.i always answer my friends dicussions,and I answer my friends that answer mine before i do the ones that never answer mine.I have already deleted some of mine and i plan to delete more,because i have went through and some of my friends NEVEr answer me,However you have always done well as my friend...I understand that we can miss a few but i try always to answer yours........

I think it is necessary to have a "friends" cull from time to time. It's no good having loads of people on your list that don't ever write anything you're interested in or who don't ever respond to your discussions. If you have hundreds it's impossible to keep in touch with what everyone is doing. I have about thirty odd so far and I have deleted a few. I don't think I'll have more than 100. By doing this I hope to have a more productive relationship with those friends I do have - quality rather than quantity.

I not sure if you are refering to me or not, but I respond to those discussions that I can, If it is a topic I don't know anything about, then I don't respond. That would waste your time and mine as well. I'm ok with whatever you decide to do...:}..I know what you mean about trying to support your friends discussions too, the list can be overwhelming at times.