I dont know what to do? PLEASE HELP!!

@samrat16 (2442)
India
April 4, 2007 2:04am CST
So..there is this girl..her name is Nikki.I like her...she hass everything I could ever imagine.She makes me laugh and I'm always happy to be with her every second I can!Its just she doesnt know!She sees me as the boy next door..I have liked her since the sixth grade and now were almost graduating high school.I wanna tell her before its too late...I dont know how though ? So if anyone had an expreience like this much help would be appreciated! ( This is problem of one of my friend , can you please support him by your ideas )
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42 responses
• India
4 Apr 07
hay samrat dont hesitate to tell her before its too late. bool dal. i dont know how u have kept patience for so long. just go to her and close ur eyes and say how much u love her dont forget to take a bunch of red rose with u. as a friend i would advise u to not to delay any more. promise me u will complete this work this evening it self. i dont want u to lose this opertunity befor someone grabs it. so please tell her how much u love her and dont forget to take a bunch of red rose with u for they may help u if any thing goes wrong.
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• India
4 Apr 07
i dont think ur last sentence is correct.(this is the problem of my friend)
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• Lithuania
4 Apr 07
Who knows, maybe that girl think about your friend the same:) So, first let he find "a seriousreason" to ask for something. he can meet her "unawares" in the city and ask her to keep a company for one cup of coffe:) If she will not refuse his activity, then maybe they will be good chance to become friends and later it would develop in to nice relations. Who knows...
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@bluewings (3857)
4 Apr 07
Oh he just missed a bus this valentine,lol.Well, if they are such good friends ,I think he should let her know how he feels about her.Considering that she is her friend ,at last she won't hurt his feelings intentionally.If she feels the same way,she might even be expecting him to propose.
• Singapore
4 Apr 07
Have you told her that you like her? TELL HER if you have not. Many girls like the boy next door image. :P
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
well. THATs the best thing you could only do~~ TELLING HER THAT YOU LIKE HER~~
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• India
4 Apr 07
hey buddy i think your friend should tell nikki asap.. without fearing of her reply! because i feel you should not keep anything any in your heart!and he should tell nikki whatever her ans is it wont change or effect their friendship! all the best.
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@deepti15 (1190)
• India
8 Apr 07
hmm, well, another love situations, looks like inspired by some hindi movie. I would suggest that your friend should go up to the girl and should propose to her. See, what can happen worst is she might turn him down, but imagine the scenario when he just did not express himself and she accepted someone else in her life. So its better to express yourself, and be disappointed than to be sulking all alone thinking if only he would have spoken his feelings. Go and speak up, leave the future to god.
@sensesfail (2251)
• India
5 Apr 07
The cutie cupid. - cupid
Well,what can i say,i guess he's in love.lol. Ask him to take her out for a coffee or something not something like a date and maybe as they could spend time together.She might get to like him this way too.Cuz you'll never what could happen when the two are together. And maybe when they're almost winding up he could tell her that he loves her or as an alternate way he could drop a letter in her bag or give it to her.This way he could avoid the fear of telling her straight to the face. This one's my favorite he could alternatively ask the people at the house(the coffee house or where ever he goes) to play a nice song and dedicate it to her.This way she'll fall for it for sure.Man i fell like a cupid.lol.All the very best to your friend. And btw when you say "your friend" you mean you right?;)
• Canada
5 Apr 07
I have to agree with what most others here said. It's better for your friend to tell this girl now, or he may never get another chance. At best she will like him too, and at worst she won't. But at least he'll know. If he is really struggling to find a way to tell her, maybe he could write her a letter. Sometimes it's much easier to put our feelings down on paper than it is to actually say them face to face. But he needs to do it soon. Putting it off will only prolong the agony, and the longer he waits, the more chance she has of meeting some other guy. I wish him the very best of luck.
@yumoney (194)
• China
5 Apr 07
Hello! my dear! I already know you very much.Your friend you had refer to.I think he should first tell the girl who he beloved.To tell her he loved her.And loved her very much. Let her have a good thinking about it. If he don't to tell her what he thought.May be, he will regret about it.Whatever she love him or not,he will not regret about it.So,if he really loved her,i believe he will try him best to get the girl.Don't let it go!
@franxexces (1096)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
Your friend should tell nikki the truth. Your friend should tell nikki everything.. just like the way your friend told you his situation.
• United States
5 Apr 07
I actually have the same problem with a guy I like. Except we probably aren't as close as you are with Nikki. But I'd say just tell her everything you just typed to us. The worst thing she could do was tell you she can only think of you as a friend, which really isnt a big deal. I know it'll feel embarrassing and it'll suck, but life goes on I promise.
• Indonesia
5 Apr 07
As simple as possible, you just should says the truth, whatever everything will you hear about it. You must tell the truth to him, that you like him. Wouldn't you?
@mskzalameda (4023)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
the best thing to do is to do it slowly and don't shock her. be with her every time she needs you. be always at her side then, find time to spill the beans my friend. i think she also like you if that is you are friends with her for a long time. just think positively. you can do that! be nice to her. :)
• China
5 Apr 07
Yes.I can't agree more that your friend should make Nikki clear about it.Firstly,he can date with the girl.If she is feeling comfortable with him,and then it's natural to express his love.
@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
5 Apr 07
hi friend,i think your friend should inform the girl of his love and thinking.it is not easy to fall in love with a person in the world ,i believe.so please go ahead and he will get his love.bless him.lol....
@karvin87 (1033)
• India
5 Apr 07
hehe, for once i though it was u and was about to question about ur marraige!!! but thnx its ur frnd n not u! i feel if a gul's got feelings she would give indicaions for sure, let ur frnd giv her some indicaions or hint to her,if she gets it and responds to it then its a party time again!!! if she doesnt get the hint then be a man and just go straight and speak...after all childhood frnds do have a advantage over others!!! cheerrrss, do lemme know wat happened, this one is interesting....
• United States
5 Apr 07
So tell her already. YOU'll never forgive yourself if you dont.
@KarenO52 (2950)
• United States
5 Apr 07
You have to let her know and make her understand how you feel. Just be honest. She may like you too, you'll never know if you don't talk this over. Even if she's not interested in you in that way, if you tell her how you feel, she may start to think differently. Just give it some time, and keep up the communication.
@adila79 (14)
• Malaysia
5 Apr 07
be a gentle..you can treat her like someone you love..let him know that you like her and wanna be someone special in her life.Just go ahead boy...if she likes you, she will belong to you.
@Chryssi (828)
• United States
5 Apr 07
Your friend needs to tell this girl how he feels, or he'll regret it for the rest of his life. He may be afraid of rejection, but if she rejects him, he will always know that he tried.