do you agree that anything must be share or tell to your partner?

@denden (802)
Philippines
April 4, 2007 7:50am CST
I think anything should be share and tell to your partner because if your are committed to marry a person then you need to share and tell all your secrets to him.How about you?What are your views?
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@natalie1981 (1995)
• Singapore
29 Apr 07
lovers - lovers sharing the sunset
Yes. I agree that if my partner wants to find out anything about me then I should tell him everything and not keep a secret because that would amount to lying. Honesty is very important in a relationship. If you think there's something really important about you that your lover needs to know, you should tell them but what you shouldn't tell them is the secrets of your friends. I know someone who takes this sharing thing a little too much and she even told a private conversation that she had with her friend to her lover. I think that's just too much.
@denden (802)
• Philippines
1 May 07
YOu are right.Thanks for the response.because it is part of a good relationship to be open.
@Augustta (1850)
• Poland
29 Apr 07
My mom said all time to me that the man have to know me from middle in down but never from middle in up...so,he have to know just my...*sing* legs...but never what i have in head!lol! But i don't agree with this...My man is my soul mate and he know even what i am thinking ,he know me so good than will know if something is wrong or good just with a look...and i think is normal to be his woman 100%...he know all about me,i have no secrets...and i guess this is the good way in a strong relationship... augusta
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@denden (802)
• Philippines
1 May 07
Yes,you are right.Thanks for the response.
@roque20 (518)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
I think so, that snything should be share to your partner because it is a one trait of a good reltionship.
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@denden (802)
• Philippines
1 May 07
yes,you are right.Thanks for the response.
@ssuren (46)
4 Apr 07
Yes I agree with you. It is not fair to hide something in a relationship. If we keep some secrets from our partner it can ruin our relationship. I too can't hide anything from my husband any thing means anything. We are open to each other and share a very good relationship.Because if we keep some secrets and by the time our partner knows about it, it will put very bad impact.
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@denden (802)
• Philippines
1 May 07
Yes,your right ssuren.because in a relationship we need to be open enough.thanks for the response keep up the good work.
• United States
4 Apr 07
I think that it is ok to share secrets with your partner but you definently don't need to share everything. Somethings are not your partner's business and if it doesn't effect him why should you say anything. My biggest pet peeve is sharing a secret with a friend and they turn around and tell their boyfriend. That means that my friend violated the trust I put in her and i don't think that is right even if you are telling your husband.
@denden (802)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
thanks for the response.A relationship always need a good communication and trust.Keep up the good work.
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I don't keep any secrets ffrom my boyfriend. If there is something he wants to know then I tell him.If there is something that I have done that I think he would like to know then of course I tell him.He does these same things as well.I consider it to be respectful. I wouldn't want to be visiting someone an have them tell my boyfriend something that might be embarassing for him not have known.
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@denden (802)
• Philippines
1 May 07
Yes,i do agree with you.Thanks for the response.Keep up the good work..
• Canada
4 Apr 07
I agree to an extent . It is true you should share anything you might feel will affect the marriage at a later date but don't agree that we have to tell everyone all of our most private secrets as there is always a part of us that is there just for us . We shouldn't feel that we have to tell everything about ourselves to be able to have a good marriage .
@denden (802)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Thanks for the response.Keep up the good work.
• Netherlands
18 Jun 07
Depends, sometimes...something better left unsaid. I'd share alot of things with my partner but not everything. Especially I know it will hurt his feeling or ones that once you tell your partner things will never be the same again or uncessary stuff. So for me personally...I'll share alot but not everything with every little details.
• Australia
14 May 07
Hello denden I think i would share my secret with my partner (my husband) I like to share something with my partner, especially the secret, who else can we share? I knew the he will keep the secret as a secret. God bless you http://money-athome.blogspot.com http://beautycosmetictips.blogspot.com
@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
4 Apr 07
YES! I believe that even though the past is the past if my husband wants to know anything it's my responsibility to tell him. I don't have any secrets from my husband. I think he may feel differently, he doesn't seem to like me asking about his past, but honestly if he wants an open relationship with good communication he needs to get over it, because I think once you are married it's all up for grabs and important to know what history your loved one has and how it made him who he is today.
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@denden (802)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Thanks for the response.A good relationships have a good communication to both partners.