best friend problem...

@joanna08 (394)
Philippines
April 4, 2007 9:27am CST
Okay guys bare with me here. Im going to tell the gist of the story. Last March was a really busy month for my best friend, and for that she suddenly disappear, like not texting me or messaging me of that sort. She even prefer to be invisible in yahoo messenger for a long while. After the busy weeks are over, I realized that there is something wrong. She wouldn't tell answer me properly and it seems as if she's avoiding me. I asked her about it and that's where she told me the truth. She told me that she prefer to be invisible in YM because she's really busy, and even though she's invisible I still bug her with my never ending stories. I was like really getting to her nerves. And then she told me that she needs some space. Here is my side. I didn't know that im really getting to her nerve. I asked her why she didn't told me, the answer. "I dont want you to be mad". Well for me that's not an enough reason. What should I do? I told her that I'll give the space that she desperatly wants. But im still very confuse. Tell me your comment and if you still want information. tell me and I'll try my best to get back to you. :))
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• United States
4 Apr 07
She may have run into some kind of problem she felt that only she could solve or take care of on her own. Usually it is instinctive to want to help a friend when knowing about the problem, & sometimes, there's not much of a way to help that friend. I have a hunch when she gets through it all, she'll explain what happened, & what she did to solve it when things settle down. One of the most common ones is needing money. She probably was busy online (And in hiding) trying to find ways of getting money she needs to take care of whatever she needed money for. She probably also felt that if she told you, "I'm busy trying to get money" ... it might be taken as she's asking you to lend or give her money, when she's only trying to tell you the problem. Or as I said, the instinct to help a friend kicks in, & she does not want to owe you.
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