Would girls like their bf to go to stripper's club?
By myempress
@myempress (185)
Philippines
April 4, 2007 9:51am CST
Just wondering if your bf was going to a stripper club with other group of boys in which you kew all of them would let him go? Yes or NO? Why?
In my opinion, well as a girlfriend it's like a slap if you see your bf to go pubs like that. Well i both have the right and don't have the right to stop him from doing what he wants. Well if you have full trust to your bf then you're confident to let him be but if he really feels for you he wouldn't do anything to hurt or disappoint you. But still i wouldn't like him to go to places like that, he has already a girl why look for some second hand girls for show.
8 responses
@joluha (342)
•
4 Apr 07
I'm lucky haven't had that happen to me - husband had two half naked dancers on his stag night and I almost didn't marry because of it - I know bit far!! But I got over it and did marry him thank goodness.
The hurt it can cause a partner is just not worth it - I'm sure if it was the other way and women were frequenting male strip bars a lot more would be said. I do trust my husband but the thought of him ogling other women would pi** me off to say the least..it's bad enough looking at women with clothes on!!
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Well, my guy went a couple of times, (about 3) I voiced my upset by it, as I didnt think he should spend money to pay a girl to be sexy for him, when there was one at home that would do it for free. But ever since we have had our daughter, he doesnt even think about it anymore.
@myempress (185)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
that's a good thing about having a family both of you are focused for the family.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Well, not so much, he still went when my son was here he is three, but when we had my daughter, 6 months ago, his whole idea on it changed. In fact, he didnt even want to go to his friends bachelor party, if there were going to be strippers. I think it is more about having a daughter, than a family.
@martinha (631)
• Portugal
11 Jul 07
I wouldn't mind if he was going, I trust him. Besides, it is different if he going alone or with friends. I think going alone is because he is really desperate to see other women, with friends it's just for fun. I would prefer to go with him than he went alone. It's not that I don't trust him, it's just that I don't trust those girls who do everything to earn their money.
The fact is that he doesn't even feel interested on going to such a place. It just doesn't even attract him seing other girls naked and dancing when he can stay at home with me.
@kdkoons (4)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I would have to say let me him go. My BF, now husband, has done this in the past, it is not big deal. I trust him and I know he is coming home to me and now, his family. I also know he is not going to do anything that I would have a problem with. I think it all comes down to trust and if you dont have trust then you really dont have much of a relationship. I must also say, to some this may be really strange, I have went with him to some of these type clubs, and his friends were there too.
@jlo228 (170)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
let your BF go.. you need to trust him sometimes.. if he rally loves you he will not make bad things that will hurt you.. He just want to bond with his buds and accidentally the club is always the right thing for them to hang-outs.
Don't worry girl.. Trust him and he will trust you too.
@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
4 Apr 07
No way I would be mega upset if I found out he went to a strip club! It doesn't even have to do with trust, I just don't see why he would have a need to see naked girls dancing around. It would really disappoint me if he went. And I am sure if my husband went, he wouldn't tell me either because he knows how I feel about him doing that. I just dont see the point for guys that are in relationships or married.They can look at that at home.
