Are you bothered by critics?
By pretty_angel
@pretty_angel (908)
Philippines
April 4, 2007 10:43am CST
I really can say that i'm one of the most popular girls in school. But the bad thing is, i have a bunch of critics around me, buzzing like bees. They keep on talking craps about me which most are not true! I'm trying my best to ignore them but they won't stop. How would you handle such situation. I don't gossip or criticize other people so i think i don't deserve this.
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6 responses
@sexyanne (67)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Well we have the same situation everywhere theres always critism..well for me i dont mind them just let it be they must be insecure or whatever just think of it that they want to let you down inspite of it just be who you really are no one can let you down,gossips just pass by if you dont mond it as lomg as you knew it was not through.Gossips or Critism is are my strenght to be strong...
Even you want to get out in critism you can let it go there are some people love to criticize and hurt other people knowing they already hurt the feelings...
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@pretty_angel (908)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
I agree. Criticisms made me stonger. Inspite of what other people tell about me, i'm doing my best to prove them wrong, and with that, i was able to improve myself and discovered some new abilities that i never knew i can. It's great actually but it just bothers me when some people keep asking me about those gossips. Confronting me in things which i am innocent of.
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@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
thats the way to do it! you go girl! take those criticisms as challenges. let it make you stronger. don't let it pull you down. c",)
@superchook (1786)
• Australia
7 Apr 07
It doesn't matter who you are or where you are, there will always be someone that will talk about you, whether its true or not. The best thing you can do is not to let it bother you and ignore it. If they see it bothering you they will only do it more. Just show them that your the better person becuase it doesn't bother you and that you don't feel the need to do it back to them.
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@pretty_angel (908)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Yeah you're right. The more they let me bother the more they do things against me. It's just rude that there are people who wants to pull you down or dissed you inspite of you're being nice to them (i'm tryng to be nice to them).
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
4 Apr 07
Try not to worry about others that judge you , more then likely because you are popular they are jealous of you . They want to do anything to get the attention on themselves and feel this is the way to do it .
Your true friends know who you are and shouldn't listen to any gossip about you without checking it out with your first .
The best thing you can do is to ignore it and you can talk to your family and friends so that you will feel like you are not alone as many children in shcool can be so cruel to each other but you know that you are a good person and so will all your family and friends .
Best of luck :)
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@pretty_angel (908)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it. I just hope they'll get tired telling things about me. It's unhealthy to get jealous as well so i think it's also for their own good.
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
honestly, i love critics. c',)
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they've made me the man i am now. if it wasn't for their stupid and senseless critisisms, i wouldn't grow strong and patient as i am now. i love good critics even more coz they give me challenges to prove some things they'd never believe i can.
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i grew up in a place where everyone are such darn pessimists to me (probably due to my different nature. i always want to be different. i always go against the norm. hehe..) they never believe in what i can do. they keep telling me i can't do this, i can't do that. but heck, they're looking up to me now coz i've succeeded over their critisisms. c',)
@pretty_angel (908)
• Philippines
13 Apr 07
It's true. As i usually say to some of my friends, if you don't have enemies, you don't have character. Without those critics you won't know some things about you. I like your optimism. =)
@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
Don't mind them. They're just KLSP. Always remember these words. If people always try to bring you down, that means you're above them. Just always stay humble as you are and you'll be fine.
- Ron Reyes
www.ronreyes.co.nr
@ninong (110)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
I do not really have critics, I think. If I do, I blast them away into nothingness, anyway. Hehe. But kidding aside, I just ignore those people especially if I know that their criticisms are groundless to begin with. They do not deserve the slightest attention.