What do you consider to be a successful discussion here at mylot?

Grand Junction, Colorado
April 4, 2007 1:15pm CST
I have seen a lot of discussions regarding to few responses how do I get more? So it got me wondering what is to few? What is successful? My understanding is if you get 1 response your paid for the discussion. Since none of us know how much we receive for discussions and responses to that discussion, what do you look for in success? My idea of success: If the discussion got 1 response= Successful discussion If the discussion got 10 to 25 responses= Very Successful discussion If the discussion got 26 to 50 responses= Wow Success If the discussion got 51 to 100 responses= Awesome Success If the discussion got 101+ responses= I made it to the elite of Success at mylot I can tell you that I love responses to my discussions, well at least most some discussions go wrong along the way and for those I would like to never see another response to them, but others I love to see brought back to the top. How about you? Do you have those that you see and cringe? When starting a discussion how many responses does the discussion need to receive for you to consider it to be a success? Do you have multiple levels of success as I do? Tell me how you feel when your discussion just takes off with responses?
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@nelltx (277)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I like your train of thought! I have only one discussion that was just flooded with responses & that was my very first post. I was a bit overwhelmed then, but I think that I could handle it now. The only problem is, I can't seem to find a subject that everyone wants to talk about. If I get at least one response to a post I am satisfied. That shows me that someone cares! :o) As I have said before, I am not here for the money, I like the people & the discussions. It is really interesting to see how other people in different countries & regions see situations. Good life to you!
• Grand Junction, Colorado
4 Apr 07
To have your first discussion take off like that did you think that, that's how all would work after? My first thought would have been that all discussions that were started would automatically take off. So I was kinda glad that mine just got a few responses and built up from their. I agree that the discussions and the people are the main reason that I'm here. I love learning about different places around the world. I do have to admit though that I love to check out my earnings from the day before to see how well my responses were received. I gauge my earnings on whether I'm contributing enough to my responses. If they were lower than anticipated then I try harder the next day to put more quality into them. Your correct that it's hard to come up with discussions that get that kind of overwhelmingly response. I do have one person on my friends list that does do that consistently though. Which I had his creativity. :) His discussions always are very thought provoking. The problem for me is that by the time I get to responding to them they have already well over 60 responses or even more. After only a few hours of starting the discussion. For me though I wouldn't be able to keep up with that kind of success on a daily basis. :) Thank you for your thoughts!
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@winky73 (1404)
• United States
4 Apr 07
If I get just one response...I would consider it successful.At least one person thought it was worth while responding to.I only have one that I feel kind of bad about....but oh well...it didn't get to many responses and hopefully it won't come back up anytime soon...lol.So far I had three that had what you call Awsome Success....but on the other hand I have none with zero responses....so I'm pretty happy in all. It's nice when a discussion really takes off....not just because the earnings will be higher....but it just feels good to have found a topic you can discuss with a lot of people.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I personally don't worry about the amount of responses. I just prefer to see well written responses if I get any at all. I can't tell you the most I've recieived. Nor can I say the least amount I've received. I just start them for my pleasure and hope for the pleasure of others. So with that said it's off to responding to more discussions here. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
4 Apr 07
To me, a successful discussion is any discussion that gets at least some responses other than the single one word responses. It may not be a great discussion, but at least it is something. I am a bit disappointed when I take the time to write a discussion and apparently not one person is interested enough to read it. That said, I am much happier with a few more responses. Of course the more the better, especially those responses that are commented on and a conversation can actually be started from them. It does not take many responses to get a good discussion going if you get good responses from those who do respond.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
4 Apr 07
Thank you for your thought on this. I agree that a few great responses is much better than a discussion that gets many responses all being frivolous. You do write great discussions and I just went back through your discussions and I think that all now have at least one response. I won't respond unless I can contribute something to the discussion, which was the case with yours. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to respond to quality discussions. :)
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@soccermom (3198)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I've never really worried about how we get paid for the discussion, so I'm no help there. As far as a successful discussion my definition would have to be that for me personally it doesn't have much to do with the amoount of responses, but more the quality of the responses. It's great when you start a discussion that really takes off, don't get me wrong, but to me it feels better to start a discussion that gets people thinking and sharing on a new level, although it's hard to start discussions like that. Anyway, that's how I consider a discussion a success
@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
4 Apr 07
Because I find it difficult to start a discussion some times I am just pleased as punch when I see even one response. I am happy to see people are still answering and perhaps I sometimes give BR a little to early, but yeh we all need to learn right ? I will try to do more post as soon as I'm able. I would like to see nothing less than 10 responses to feel successful here at myLot...
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
4 Apr 07
I agree, that even 1 response is a success. Especially for certain types of discussions that may be limiting in the audience they attract. For instance, video games, I see quite a few discussions started about specific games, while that may be a great discussion when the game is limited to a specific game, it has now limited the amount of people that have knowledge to be able to contribute. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Hope all is getting better in your neck of the woods. :)
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@weemam (13372)
4 Apr 07
after I post a discussion I keep looking back to see if anyone has answered it . I get quite excited when someone does and I love to read all of my answers , I spend more time reading and rating and leaving replies to my responses than I do writing them to other peoples , I love to see them adding up , the hardest part is giving a best response to them when they are over a 100 , I love it here , I love my responses , and I love all my new friends too , the earnings are secondary eh! so do we only ever get paid for the first response ? do you think?
@weemam (13372)
5 Apr 07
Thanks for that pal , I love to read mine and leave a wee message , I don't think a lot go back to read them but I know I do xx
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
4 Apr 07
Well my own thoughts on that are no. I will tell you why. The other day I responded to just one discussion and hadn't started any new ones in a few days. I did however receive a few responses to discussions that had been previously started. I went and rated them and left a few comments. The next day I had expected my earnings to be around the .02 to .04 since I had only responded to 1 discussion, nothing carried over from the day before either as I had only responded to 5 in the afternoon. So my earnings for the day of answering just 1 discussion, started nothing new and uploaded no pictures, and no activity from referrals was...... a whopping .14 so my thought are yes we are paid for responses I just don't know if we are made for set numbers or individually etc.... May have to do another experiment. This is from my own observations. :)
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
8 Oct 15
My idea of a successful discussion would have no relation to the quantity of responses, just to the interest generated. If members become involved in a discussion rather than simply make a passing comment, then I consider it to have served a great purpose and therefore successful.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
9 Oct 15
Very well said. I believe that any discussion that can generate conversations within is a complete success.
@dana234 (2114)
• Spain
5 Apr 07
I´m happy when people respond to my discussions, but I don´t measure a successful discussion with the amount of answers I get. The content of the response is more important. If I get a few "good" answers which are subject related, I consider the post successful. One answer is ok too.
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
5 Apr 07
i agree that the quality of the responses is more important than the number of responses. I would rather have a few good quality replies than a lot of one word or short replies.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
5 Apr 07
I couldn't agree more that quality is far better than the quantity of the responses and should have put that into my discussion. Forgive me friends for not thinking ahead. This is one time when I wish that I could edit my post. :)
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@sweetlady10 (3611)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Everybody like to get lots of responses to their discussions, so do I. Personally I feel a discussion successful if I get atleast 10 responses to the discussion. I feel happy when the number of responses go over 50 and feel very happy when it goes up to 100. But at times 1 response can also feel good. Something is better than nothing.
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• Singapore
5 Apr 07
Interesting of you to categorize discussions in this manner. I just want to point out though that there are many criteria you can use to "judge" if a discussion is successful. No doubt the number of responses is one, but I find that the most successful discussions by your criterion is not necessary one of "highest" quality. I have seen many higher-quality discussions around that did not garner impressive responses. However, they are well-written and the responses are of a high quality too. Additionally, there is a good exchange between members on the thread. So it is really up to you to set your own criteria for success. ;-)
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
5 Apr 07
Good morning Lordwarwizard, Nice to see another of those high-quality 'askers' I referred to chime in. Excellent advice about the individual using their own criteria to define successful.
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• Singapore
7 Apr 07
Lol Lady Luna, you are everywhere! :P
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
I guess, one response would do. As long as the response I get contains a brief related answer. Not only a simple yes or no response. I want it to be precise and full of thoughts. I post discussions to learn more knowledge and gain different ideas from all over the world. This is how I consider a discussion successful. How would you react with this?
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@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
I rate a successful discussion not by the amount of responses but with the effort the user had made in making a good discussion. I really appreciate those users who really tried their best in making a good topic for the people to relate to. Even though it didn't got a fair amount of responses, for me, the effort will always be the best basis for a successful discussion. - Ron Reyes www.ronreyes.co.nr
@vbvbvb (85)
• India
4 Apr 07
Absolutely in one line I can say, a discussion having a lot of responses and a lot of nested comments is indeed a successful discussion.
@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
5 Apr 07
Good morning Beanie, Nice to visit with you again. Hmmm, what constitutes a good discussion? I believe that you've got another home run topic here! Well, I consider a discussion valuable if I, and hopefully others gain some knowledge, wisdom, and/or understanding from the thread. I'm highly motivated to learn and share what I've learned through the years, so quality is always my goal. I do believe that quality can be achieved with one respondent. However, most people don't fully articulate their whole perspective in a first post. So, if I see a volley of thoughts and ideas ... that's a great clue for me that the discussion is potentially valuable. I also really like to see the respondents interacting with each other. Or at the very least, the asker drawing out additional perspective from the respondents. Of course, not if the respondent's are flaming! If a thread draws participants who engage in flame wars, then I look back at the original post to see if it might have been phrased to attract hostility. If so, then I dismiss the thread altogether. People generally do not absorb any part of another's perspective when they are extremely emotional. So, the chances of a true exchange of perspective is lessened. As for participants who interact with the topic, but avoid the flaming, they stand a better chance of really learning something to broaden their perspective. However, the tendency for human beings is to choose one side or the other. So again, the fact that a flame war has erupted at all devalues the thread for me. In summary, I consider a small to medium sized discussion, with a more complete exchange of thought as far more valuable than a huge discussion with limited interaction. I believe the asker takes on quite a bit of responsibility when they post a thought-provoking question. The asker needs to be both the facilitator and the mediator. So, the asker has to be willing to dedicate sufficient time to developing the thread. I give alot of credit to our askers who consistently handle that responsibility with grace and dedication -- like you, and a few other really high quality posters here. I hope to some day have the time to really participate as an 'asker'. For right now I gladly respond and admire MyLot's great askers from afar. I certainly hope that having said this doesn't discourage others from asking thought-provoking questions. Just because I don't have enough time to personally dedicate to the 'art of asking' should, in no way, deter anybody else. For those slightly intimidated by asking, I refer you to Beanie and others here who are excellent role models for asking and developing high quality threads.
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• India
11 Apr 07
if the discussion get many responses and if the people reply willingly and happily af if they were highly interested is a successful deiscussion. while a discussion which does not get many responses is a failure. So keep posting the discussions which are hot and liked by the people
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
5 Apr 07
I've been here 4 months and to tell you frankly I still haven't figured what makes people respond, each person's choice is so varied, it is hard to narrow down 'successful' topics as such. But of course one that gets more responses could be termed successful quantity wise not quality wise. There was one discussion long ago asking the full form of "http" and you won't believe the number of responses it had....400+!!! So if a simple question like that can get so many responses then there is no actual measure as to what is really successful here. Even the silliest "one-word" response discussions make it to the top and seem to stay there forever..hehe! All said, to me a discussion is doing well when I get quality responses, 5 or 50, its the same as long as users have understood my discussion and respond with something of substance:)
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• United States
4 Apr 07
I think your rating table is great. I have never made it to the elite but I have also never had zero responses...THANK YOU MY FRIENDS!! I have not posted a discussion that I cringed at but I'm sure others have shuddered at it, But I have cringed at some of the responses I have received.
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• Grand Junction, Colorado
5 Apr 07
Thank you for the compliment on my rating table. I also have no discussions with zero responses, thanks to all of my wonderful friends here at mylot. I'm working on helping out with those this month. So far have knocked out 6 today. It's a little time consuming having to go page by page but it's making me feel better none the same.
@Denmarkguy (1845)
• United States
9 Apr 07
I can't say that I have an elaborate system for measuring success, but I guess I'd have to say that any discussion that gets 10 or more responses is "successful," in my eyes. A discussion that gets 50 or more responses is more in the "Whoa, DUDE!" category... I remember being amazed when the second discussion I ever posted on myLot ran away and ended with 100+ responses. However, I also consider "dialogue" important in whether a discussion is "successful." It's one thing to get 50 straightforward responses, but quite another if quite a few of them take off and become "mini discussions" of their own between several people chatting back and forth... to me, that means the topic "got people thinking," and that's success, too.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
11 Apr 07
Hello. When i am starting a discussions, of coursre I would like to get some responses, but the number of responses are not really important, what is impoortant is can i really create a real discussion with other members , I would be happy to get 5 quality replies of 20 lines rather than 100 one line responses. I think it is not the numbers to determine whether you are sucessful or not as it is not a competitio in mylot to get more responses,but of course, i will be happy if i get 100 quality responses.