What should I do? My husband wants to buy me a car,but I don't think I need one.
By magnet
@magnet (2087)
United States
April 4, 2007 2:16pm CST
I overheard my husband talking to someone on the phone about buying me a brand new car for my birthday in May. Everytime we go out he takes me to a car lot and ask me if I want to test drive a car. He told me the other day that I deserve a new car. I don't think I need a car right now. I rather us continue to save money up for our second mortage. Should I tell him that I overheard the conversation or just act surprised?
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4 responses
@Erinlpx (179)
• United States
4 Apr 07
Has your car had lots of repairs? Perhaps he's concerned that the older your car gets, the more of a money-pit it will turn into. Alternatively, perhaps he just wants you to have something nice and new for yourself.
If you let this slide though when you feel strongly against it, you may come to regret it. I would talk to him, let him know that you would much prefer the money be spent more practically.
You know him best, and how that would turn out, but that is what I would do.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I think that he might be a little concerned about the repairs. We spent about $800 dollars last year in repairs. He always tells me that he want to give me the best. I just don't want the car payment to keep us from being about to get a loan amount for our second house when we are ready to buy it.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I think if you really want to save for your second mortgage then maybe you should tell him.Tell him that you overheard the conversation,maybe he can buy you nice used car for cash.I wish someone could buy me a new car and pay the car notes.You are a lucky lady.I wish you luck on your decision.
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@caribe (2465)
• United States
4 Apr 07
If you really want to continue to save money for your mortgage, then you should tell him you overheard the conversation and tell him how you feel. You know your husband best so you will have to ultimately be the one to decide whether you want to ruin his surprise or not. You might explain to him why you would prefer not to get the car now. On the other hand, if your car is getting old and has mechanical issues, it might be wise to get a newer model, not necessarily an new car.
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
4 Apr 07
It wouldn't be a surprise anymore because you already knew about it =). Anyways, why not tell him everytime you'll go to a car shop to choose what you want or to test drive, or even during casual conversation, that you strongly believe that you don't need a new car (or having a new car isnt a good idea yet and state your valid reasons). To add, tell him you're happy and contented with what you have right now. Then suggest another thing that's in your mind that you want/you think is necessary and surely will make you happy. He might get another idea out of it, in that way, you won't ruin his surprise plan and you (and some financial reasons) wont be compromised too.
