I love you or I'm sorry

@OURDEW (4809)
United States
April 4, 2007 3:04pm CST
Which is harder for you to say.
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14 responses
• United States
5 Apr 07
I'm a woman, and I think it's harder to say "I love you" (which I have never expressed to any human being at all yet), than to say "I'm sorry" (which I have learned to say these past few months, whenever I would acknowledge my faults). I think it really depends on the gravity of the situation and on the person you are saying these words to. You see, I grew up in a family who's not intimate or showy of caring towards one another, especially verbally. Thus, I was never used to saying "I love you". I think I would only say this to the person I truly have deep feelings for (like my future husband). Otherwise, it would always be actions speaking louder than words. As to saying "I'm sorry", of course if I would really feel that I'm in the wrong, I would freely say it. I have realized that saying sorry has helped me in my relationships with my loved ones and friends. Happy myLotting!
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• United States
12 Apr 07
Thanks for choosing mine as the "best response"! Truly appreciate it.
@BrainTeaser (1428)
• Pakistan
5 Apr 07
Well it really depends upon the person your facing and the situation you are in if i really didnt like a person and even if i am wrong it will be quite hard for me to say sorry and if thats person is my friend or someone closer it wont be that bad to say sorry to your own.In the same manner too hard to tell a lie that i love you when i really dont yea i can say i like you but if not in love its just impossible to say and act that i do.How about yourself?
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@OURDEW (4809)
• United States
14 Apr 07
It's easy for me to say I'm sorry, but harder to say I love you.
• Canada
13 Apr 07
Neither one should be that hard to say, and neither one is hard for me to say, if I really mean it. If I know I am wrong, I am able to apologize for it, and if I know I love osmeone I am able to share that with them too. If you are sure of what you are doing, neither one will be a problem.
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@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
i think it's both i love you and i'm sorry is hard to say,it depends upon the situation. i can hardly say i love you to the person that i dont love but it's easy to say it to the people whom i really love like my family, daughter, closed friends and to my boyfriend. also sometimes, it's hard for me to say i'm sorry because sometimes, my ego is too selfish that i hardly say i'm sorry to the person..
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• Pakistan
14 Apr 07
For most people,saying I love you is difficult if they really love.And for some people saying Iam sorry is difficult.For me none of them is difficult.
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@SatoNa (247)
• Indonesia
14 Apr 07
For me, It's harder to say I love you. because I'm too shy to say that. I said it only to my boyfriend. but it's only in SMS and also very seldom too.. "
• Canada
5 Apr 07
I say both so much I can`t answer that properly and be honest . How about you ???
@jshekar (86)
• India
4 Apr 07
It is harder to say I am sorry then I love u.
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• United States
4 Apr 07
neither one. Both are just as important
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• United States
5 Apr 07
both but im sorry is harder for me to say.
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@deesamps (653)
• United States
5 Apr 07
For me it is harder to say I am sorry than I love you. I think it is because it is having to admit that you were wrong or what you did was bad. I agree with the other person that it is a pride thing.
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@graciela (147)
• Canada
4 Apr 07
It's harder for me to say sorry. It has something to do with my pride.
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@angel68 (138)
• United States
5 Apr 07
Neither are really hard to say. I say them when i mean them ... not just to be saying them. I LOVE MYLOT lol.
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@mickidmw (992)
• United States
5 Apr 07
If you can say I love you to someone, it should be pretty easy to say I am sorry. I can say either without a problem. Great question though!
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