How do you deal with a boyfriend or girlfriend's ex?

hello val_babypink! welcome to mylot... it seems that youre new here! well... i couls just say that.. perhaps i would just wanted to act normal as an ordinary friend to her, actually i did,,, in my ex girlfriends... theres no special treatment nor special action. just be yourself and ignore the issues. it will neither help yu to go on. just forget about the rumors and act as nothing had happened coz if you will be affected it just means that you're eithr still a bitter or missing your guy... Enjoy mylot! TC:)