What advice would you give to a continuously arguing couple
@Beauty_is_her_name (68)
United States
April 4, 2007 7:06pm CST
My guy and I have been together for 8 yrs. and counting. We've had a very rocky past due to cheating in our relationship but we charged it off due to the fact that he was young and dumb and really wasnt ready for a family. I stuck by his side and to this day I'm here. No because I couldnt find another man, but because I love him. We seem to argue about everything as far as other women, trust, his dishonesty, and its getting to a point to where its almost unbareable. I'm not sure of how he really feels about me... He says he loves me, but sometimes I'm not to sure. We've talked about this but we end up arguing. I'm tired of being his gf, and he just doesnt get it. I've been there through thick and thin, bared his children and still nothing, but arguements. I dont know what to do anymore... can someone please HELP!!! What advice would you give to a continuously arguing couple?
2 responses
@jumpinjack00 (3054)
• United States
5 Apr 07
I'd love to say stick in there but as a guy if
I'm constantly arguing with my girlfriend than
I have no love left for her. I'm just hanging in
there for some lovin' and until something better
comes along. That's not my style but that's an
urge that's left over from our youth and single
days.
Once you find the one you want to be with, you don't
cheat, period. If you're arguing about the things you
mentioned than one or all of the three following apply.
1. He's still cheating or regrets being caught.
2. You haven't forgiven him, because he hasn't
given you reasons to do so.
3. He's simply tired of being around you. That
doesn't mean there's anything wrong with either
of you, it's just time to move on.
The reasons you gave for arguing are relationship
enders. If it was about finances, the children,
chores, etc., than I would say it's a different
story.
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@lightningMD (5931)
• United States
5 Apr 07
i think if the relationship is worth saving then its time for counseling...i think maybe you havent really forgiven him even though you stayed with him..maybe that helps contribute to the fighting...good luck i hope you guys can work it out
