is my girlfriend really a ho?
By kurtbiewald
@kurtbiewald (2625)
United States
April 4, 2007 9:08pm CST
a young brother told me 2 years ago she was a Chinese ho.
How could I find out?
How could I help her?
2 responses
@asteriskec (1074)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
Why try to go behind your girlfriend's back just to find out? I think the first thing you must do is to confront her and ask her if the rumors are true. The advantange of this is that if the rumors aren't true, then at least you got the word straight from the horse's mouth. Now if you feel that you just aren't comfortable with your girlfriend's response, then that's the time you do a little investigation. Follow her and observe her schedules and actions.
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
5 Apr 07
nope I don't spy on people
at all ever
its against my sense of valuing people's privacy
I wouldn't want somebody to spy on me so I don't do that to others
If she wants me to know maybe she would tell me, its sad to think I might not ever hear from her anymore.
I love her.
@steelmoggy (410)
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5 Apr 07
Do you love her and is their anything in her behaviour that you find difficult to deal with?
She MAY have bene this 2 years ago - who knows. If you're happy, and she's happy, and there's nothing happening to make you suspicious then I'd let it lie for now. This is one of those ocacsions when total open-ness may not be the best way forward.
She may come to you herself and mention it at some time, if it were true.
In the meantime, is there any reason to believe that the rumours may be coming out of jealousy?
If you DO decide to go digging - you need to be able to answer teh quetion - Am I prepared for the answer?
