What do you think about this?

@srktiger (108)
India
April 4, 2007 11:12pm CST
What do think as the right time to have a baby. first year of marraige or later.
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5 responses
• United States
5 Apr 07
It is up to the couple.f they want to start their family on their wedding night, that's okay. But if they want to wait and either focus on careers or travel or just enjoy each other that's okay too. The problem happens when one spouse wants a child right away and the other wants to wait.As long as you and your spouse agree, anytime is the right time.
• China
5 Apr 07
It's up in the air for i and my wife..i think the children will take you happiness as well as annoyance..now, i think, you don't consider that detailedly..advise you to look before you leap. It is a good time for me and my wife to study and do others things...at least, we have to supply better condition to our future baby.
@thefuture (1749)
• Nigeria
5 Apr 07
Hey! I think after marriage, you both need to sit down and have a good planning that will enable you set arrange your familys' future. I think the right time for you to have a child is after marriage, because then you must have get prepared to raise a wonderful family. Thanks and have a nice day.
@Dseacrest (203)
• United States
5 Apr 07
I am one that if both partners are ready for a little one then they should have one. Many like to wait until after the first year since basically that is the newlywed time. I for one would prefer when ever. I just think that being financially stable is a good thing. Hope that helped out.
@pacwmn (79)
• United States
5 Apr 07
We personally waited 4 years to have our first baby, but what is really important is not the amount of time you wait, but when you both are ready. It takes a lot to be a parent and it takes a strong marriage as well. Don't pressure a spouse into being ready before he/she really is. When you are both ready, then the time is right. Best wishes!
• India
5 Apr 07
its left to the couple.In my opinion, you can have 1-2 years of time.by then however you were before marriage you can become financially and mentally prepared to ahve a kid. Too late sometimes proves to be disastrous. Hence a minimal time to get settled financially and mentally is fine. But in this both partners should agree with one another otherwise theres always a problem