Love or Arrange??

United States
April 5, 2007 7:48am CST
What would you prefer love marraige or arrange marriage ?? Does it differ once you get married?? Which one do you think has high success rate ??
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ursfriend
@ursfriend (218)
• United States
5 Apr 07
I would choose teh blend of love and arrange and I beieve that the blend has more surity that the marriage would be strong and prolong what do you say?
infinitus
@infinitus (110)
• United States
5 Apr 07
Thxx Well by blend you mean its an arranged dating and then you fall in love or you love and then make both parents agree to get you married?? What if parents oppose would yougo against them ?? Do you think love marriage is more sensible ?
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ursfriend
@ursfriend (218)
• United States
6 Apr 07
no, by blend means that I love someone, ask my parents that I want to marry her. My parents wuld agree my decision and then we got married. This is how first love and then arranged and these type of marriages would go long and reliable
zing_i
@zing_i (269)
• United States
5 Apr 07
I prefer arrange cause then u dont have do the decision makng
michele_villasenor
@michele_villasenor (624)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
Definitely love! Arranged marriage is forced marriage. It is hard to make it succeed since it did not start out of love which is essential in any relationship especially marriage.
sapphiresage
@sapphiresage (431)
• United States
5 Apr 07
I would never agree to an arranged marriage. Marriage is difficult enough without being risking being stuck with someone who has a personality or habits you can't stand. That sort of marriage would end very quickly!