Can friendship lead to a successful relation
By raj101359
@raj101359 (54)
India
April 5, 2007 9:14am CST
A lady living next door sees me as a true friend. For the past two years we are friends. Usually we board the same bus to town. She is a mother of two children .Often she discusses her problems with me and I used to give slight advices for her.
Now the problem is, she is mingling closely than ever before.I suspect ,besides friendship she expects something more. I am in a fix. What I should do. Should I proceed according to her ways or slip away.Any way she is attractive and having an attractive nature.Please send your comments
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@nageswari75 (675)
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5 Apr 07
It depends on what you really want to do.If you love her,then go ahead.If you don't see her that way then just behave normally.Don't suggest anything to her.She might be feeling friendler to you because you both bpard the same bus and maybe she likes your advises.If you donot want to get involved with her,then just don't talk to her too much.
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@raj101359 (54)
• India
6 Apr 07
I do love her , but the fact is that she loves her husband too.This I have learned from her talks.If so, my involvment wii destroy their relation. In that sense it will not be a good act on my part,I think.Isn't it true?
@michele_villasenor (624)
• Philippines
5 Apr 07
If you feel something special for her then go ahead. But if you only see her as a friend don't force yourself into falling in love. But as long as she has not told you anything about how she feels for you i suggest that you should stop assuming that she sees you as someone who could be more than friends with her.
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@velvetprinzess (1064)
• Singapore
5 Apr 07
You have to ask yourself whether you are interested in pursuing a relationship with her. Would you like her to be with you in the long term.
If you do like her, you can indicate your interest to her and see if she responds. If she does, congrats, I think you're well on the way to coupledom!
All good relationships and marriages are rooted in a strong and deep friendship. Good luck! :)
