problems,problems!!!

i deal with it myself first by thinking of possible ways to solve it. if i'm not sure, then i consult my friends regarding the solution.

I think it totally depends upon the nature of problem, how to tackle with. Sometimes problem is so urgent that needs immediate solution and sometimes it takes a while to resolve. I think if the first one is there, its better to have some solution by your own rather to discuss. Decision power definitely counts in this issue. The second one would meant to be discussed and have some counsil too.

If we're talking about 'life problems', then here's what I do... I always try and have a shot at solving my own problems first; I think I've always been like that, even as a small child. I'll also sleep n a problem. If I can't make a decision, then I consult my wife, and I'll often go and spend a short time in Church and make some quiet time in to which I might get some inspiration. Eventually, if I can't get a good answer that solves the problem, I'll maybe consult some of my closer friends. Once I have made a decision, though, that's it. I'll stick with what I've decided.

In dealing problems I can solved as on my own as I can but I need some comment from others to if it is right having the right decision on it. If Im facing a problem that hard to solved I need to ask advice or have open-forun who are involed.