You got your partners personal diary would you read it?
By deepti15
@deepti15 (1190)
India
April 5, 2007 11:12am CST
Somehow, somewhere hidden in the cupboard you got hold of your partners personal diary. A diary which might hold so many things that you might have always wanted to know, ...your partners first crush, what your partners thinks of you, what does your partner want, what could be your partners next move...ooooohh, would you read it?
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15 responses
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
5 Apr 07
Personal diary ohho Na I won't read it . As I already know what all would she write . I know she is passimist, she never writes when I do something good .She writes only when she is hurted or feel not good. I don't understand meaning of writing personal diary when you know it will be full of sorrows only. No sens and I disapprove her and her diary as they are momentry and of no use to read.
@karanchadha (123)
• India
6 Apr 07
well,i may read the diary but wont react unless i get to know something really significant...i feel if i get to know something undesirable abt her past life,i will discuss that with her and hope that our relationship emerge out stronger...not reading is also a good idea but i think,my curiosity will get the better of me...
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@haydee324 (18)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
I wouldn't think of reading it since it would only ruin his trust for once he knew i read it and whatever i may read which may seem unfavorable to me would only disturb or bother my otherwise peaceful atate of mind and relationship with him. I'd rather he tell me of his experiences than me, reading about them and misinterpreting whatever he may have written.
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@tiru_tspa (37)
• India
17 Apr 07
i will return that dairy to whomso ever it belongs bcoz i dont like to read the dairy of others
@totalearnings (1603)
• India
4 May 07
my partner doesnt maintain a personal dairy. her memory is so sharp that she remembers each and every damn thing since we got together 11 years back. and theres no secret whatsoever between us.
@Erinlpx (179)
• United States
6 Apr 07
No, I wouldn't. It's not difficult to figure out appropriate and inappropriate behavior in relationships. 1. Ask yourself "Would I like it if this was done to me?" If the answer to that is "no", then don't do it.
I would be extremely upset if he read my journal - so why would I do something like that to him?
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@sapphiresage (431)
• United States
5 Apr 07
Never. One of the ways my husband and I honor each other is by respecting each others' privacy. I would never violate that trust, just as I expect him never to go through my purse or personal things. Respect is vital.
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@hollowheart (1572)
• India
4 May 07
Ya i would definitely read it. It would be a key to so many secrets which were probably burried under the sea bed of her life. it would give a chance tohelp her as well as to be cautious if the person is a spy or a non trustworthy person.
@licisheng508 (221)
• China
9 May 07
no,i never give my diaries to my partners.i think diaries is a personal privacy,even if your spouse didn't have the right ro read your diaries unless you allow she/he to do so.
@edy_scratty (102)
• Philippines
11 May 07
I will definetely do so!! i know it is wrong but i just wanna know more about him and what he thinks about me so I could be a better girlfriend to him..I believe that it is very important to know everything about your partner because it would be easier for both of you to understand each other..just dont let him/her catch you!
@kumar17vijay (113)
• India
3 May 07
Definitely, i will not read at any circumstances, it is not good to read personal diary of any person or maybe relative or partner . The personal diary itself tell that it is personal wealth of that diary owner. So anybody should not read the diary of other person.