Strong-willed child

my youngest has proven to be strong willed thus far, at the ripe age of 6 months, he went on a hunger strike for 2-3 days, and has finally resumed eating, although he will no longer nurse, I suppose he decided he was done. He just started taking a bottle this morning. I love to see him push against me attimes, when I try to put him in his carseat, he wont have it, making himself stand up in it, but I know that his toddler years will be a challenge. I have worked with some strong-willed toddlers in a nursery, and know it can be frustrating. The thing I found that helped the most was to try and stay calm, as hard as that is, once they realize they are getting to you, they feed on that, and get even more difficult to handle. It may just mean that when you are frustrated, they go to their room for some quiet time, while you regain your composure. Make sure you are consitent with the rules and that they are clear and easy to understand. Think of some other ways to discipline, such as revoking privelages, and time outs, otherwise you may feel like you are always spanking them (if you use this form of discipline). Use rewards when they are compliant the first time, (anything from stickers, to lots of praise) and try to get a break when you need one. I cannot think of anything else to add, I'm sure you'll do well. Good luck to you and your strong willed little boy.