what is the importance of a wife in a mans life

A man relationship is the most intimate loving and you put whatever glossy terms you have and yet its one of the most complicated issues to handle. In the begining the relationship is very fresh sweet and juicy. let me state the obvious that men and women are different and hence the we often misunderstand each other and recognising these differences can alleviated confusion and hurt feelings. As a woman i also sometimes go through the same logic as you say. as time goes by we all fall in the same track of taking each other granted no matter who it is. sometimes its the same with mother and children when a child is born we are so happy and excited to have the baby in the home that we do everything that counts for the baby, as the child is growing and is in its teen or adult we realise that he or she is a pain or irratating or gets on to our nerve and then we start taking the child for granted and yet carry on just for the sake of doing it. The same counts for man-woman relationship. when a couple is just married there are no problems of what so ever at all. but as time goes by we do tend to take each oother granted and its not one sided affair. sometimes it s the reverse. the case is also such that a man knows that his wife is always there for him no matter what quality time is spends with her and the other side the wife feels that the husband is least borthered about her so when it comes to perform her duty she feels that she is doing her duty but he is'nt and that he takes her for granted but truely speaking its not the case all the time. for example if the man is out to work and the wife working all day in the house, now subconsciously she longs to spend more time with her husband as in the begining,at the same time the husbands who returns from work is tired physically as well as mentally and sensing that there is something not right with the wifes so called mood is also emotionally tensed.he may also know that the wife does feel neglected and he has to do something about it and maybe he say to day i am tired I'll try to cheer the wife tomorrow where the tomorrow never comes so there you see there is misunderstanding both the sides.actually its the quality and quantity time that we have to find for fulfillment of each others need not perhaps sexually but maybe just the look in each others eyes, or some quite momments together without being disturbed . one of the partners can come up with some excitement in there lives, maybe doing somthing that will make them feel young or new birds. there is the saying that it takes two palms to clap.so both the partners shoud understand the situation and come up with plan to renew their life. i do know a couple of such cases where the wife feels frustrated and is taken for granted. this is a vauge topic so its difficult to come to an conclusion. it think one should find the cause behind, if there is a routine life then couples tend to go through such phase of life, what they can do is bring changes in their homes or themselves physically or try meditating, sometimes a man gradually sees a woman as he saw in his mother to fulfill all his needs no matter whether he can fulful his side of part. needs like having a lover, washing, mopping, sewing,cooking, making children, and cleaning the home everything that counts in the house.

A wife is the light of a mans life and the reason to live and have a family together and all dreams are to be shared with. Wife is not created to take for granted by man to have somebody who could help the man and have companion. and to be able to bear a child for you both responsible with.

My husband says I keep him together so he can keep going because having me to take care of is the most important thing in this world. I take care of him too.

I feel a wifes position is to take care of the husband and family. To support the husband both good and bad. To lift him up when he is down and to make sure that he has the courage to keep going when the chips are down. Providing that support for him in times of need is very important to making him feel like a man and making him feel loved and supported.