I can't bear living apart from my husband!1

i totally understand you. when my boyfriend and i were able to end our two weeks of being together last year, it broke my heart to see my boyfriend leave and go back to sweden while i am left behind in the philippines. we cried together the night before and cried a lot in the airport and cried a lot days after. it's such a horrible thing to go through. parting ways with someone you love so much is the most painful experience ever. one thing which keeps us going is the love we have for each other. we spend time everyday chatting to each other everyday, we call, and we send those handwritten mails even up to now. it was just the beginning of something real. just meant how much we love each other. i am just glad that i am going to be with him soon within this year. i just can't wait to be with him and start a life with him forever. as for you, i know you can be with him again soon... the next time, is much much longer for you two. good luck. you are such a nice friend.

I'm sorry to hear that. When u have already found some1 that u think u cud share the rest of your live with u, it is badly enof to think that u will going to separate with him soon. If I were u, I don't think I could stand this, let alone going back without knowing when i can meet him again. But CHEER UP! Handphone/telephone still exists don't they? U can always hear his voice through the phone, or u also can online & chat with him every day.. Tat, cud reduced your feeling of missing him everyday..

Ugh - not only does this come at a crazy time, as it's sort of a holiday. For Jewish people, it's passover. For Christians, it is the Easter holiday. I think it is also a special day for Muslims too. It is also for the Chinese, that time when those who are living honor their ancestors that have had a large part in their lives. Did you try to see if the visa can be extended?

Oh dear I know how you feel, it must be awful to stay away from hubby dearest! I am dreading the time when I will be on my trip to meet family and I will be away from my hubby for almost 6 weeks..just the thought makes me feel so sad but I have to visit my parents too so I have to bear the separation. Why don't you move to US honey so you can stay with your hubby all the time. It is difficult staying away, though distances make the heart grow fonder, at the same time distances bring tears. Hope you and hubby get back again soon.:)

Yes barbie, we know how you love your husband. Be strong alright? :P Record more songs for him and email him in the meantime. ^^

Are you working on a different country? If your visa expires you can renew it anytime. It really hurts him when you part from each other. It's up to you to choose which is which.

I know how hard it is to leave your love one or seeing your love one leave. Me and my husband were in a long distance relationship before and when he comes visit and then leaves again...it just broke my heart. But am just thankful, there is internet, phone, web camera and text messaging rather than the good old days where all you have is snail mail and long distance call thru operators. The new technology nowdays alleviate the pain of being separated. I was just thankful that I had these before or I will go crazy until the time when we will be in each other arms again. After 2 years of being apart, the moment we were together, we vow never to part again.

I wouldnt' be able to live apart from my husband . Different times he has talked about moving away so he can make more money and I always tell him that although money is nice , it is not as important as him being with his family and that we will either all move together or we will stay here and he can keep the job he has with the same pay . I would find this extremely difficult also . My husband used to work and have to go away for a few days at a time and I always hated it and was glad when he got another job and he wouldn't have to do this anymore . I find it so hard to sleep when he is not around and even though we probably wouldn't do anything other then watch t.v or play on the computer if he was home , when he is not here I am not sure what to do with my time :)

Oh my girl, I know it is so hard, but you have got to be strong. We all here are with you in prayers and thoughts!xxxxxxx Will go and read. Arrie Warrie

Oh sweetie, I'm sorry to hear about your pain. You two are sharing a kind of love that envied everyone. I know its difficult to be separated but I wish you more courage. Your poem shows a love that is pure and rare. Please be happy and stop crying for now. "hugs"

That is really sad when you love someone so much and have to go away again. I thought if you married you were allowed to stay. Guess I need to learn the facts more closely. I don't know what to say except I am very sorry, and I am sorry. Take care.

I have been where you are and it's terrible. How long will you be apart for? I had to leave my partner for 6 weeks to get the rest of my affairs in order and it almost killed the both of us. It was a horrible horrible time for us. After I left he wrote a post on his blog with a photo of me telling how it hurt him to leave me at the airport as security dragged me through the checkpoint so I'd leave. Otherwise I wouldn't have left and I had to. Please remember that one day you will get past this and you will be together for good. I know it seems like that day will never come but keep strong. This is all for a reason.

We make choices in life and sometimes with those choices we are forced to face consequences even if we don't like. We have to be definite on what we really want to do with our lives. We have to weigh things carefully. We should prefer those that are more important than those that are just earthly things. If living your husband is that hurtful for you why not make a solution first while the problem is still not there. What I am trying to say is, why not let your husband apply for a visa so you won't worry about leaving him alone every time you leave. And, you don't really have to go just because your visa will expire. You can always apply for a visa. Sometimes, we create our own heartaches which is also sometimes can be prevented from happening. Hope you'll understand.

I hope you're able to find a loophole where you and your husband can stay together. I've heard that if you marry someone, you have the right to become a citizen of the country of your spouse. I'm not sure if its true in every country, though.

Don't ask me cause I have to bear this pain like everyday... I can't be with the girl whom I love and have to stay miles away from her just because of mine and her studies. Its really tough for me to stay here and feel that I can do nothing to make her life a little more comfortable and easy so I do try to call her up every now and then but when I can't even do that then you know how it feels. I just can't stay away from her. I hav't seen her since deceember and its surely making me go mad.... She's gonna be here in june but it eats me to know that she is just coming for a month and its so less. I miss her a lot and I miss the times spent with her. If only I could do something to stay with her ever. Any ways Take Care May GOD Bless YOU

So sorry to hear that.But u will be always thinking abt him na and dont worry u will be together soon.Atleast u can pray that and get back soon.lol

We need to be strong when are away from family. I am living with my wife from last year. I still cry when I remmember my parents. I miss them a lot. I know there are times when god is not good on us but we can handle the time and move ahead for better times. My wife is also going to thailand for 6 months later this year and we are also scared what will happen to both of us without eachother. Nice poetry .

I am sorry for you...you must be very sad..i am not married yet...but i can understand your feeling..i have a loving boyfriend too...and i can't imagine myself too far away from him...you must be very sad to wake up in the morning without him by your side right?...i don't mean to make you even sadder but i am sure your husband is a loving person that always care for you...that is way you cannot be apart from him...don't worry good things will come to your way...as God will not let human suffer more that one's can't bear...there's always blue sky behind the clouds...be strong..

Sis I don't what to say to make you happy, because no words could change the saddness of being separated from the one you love. You have the same problem with my mom and dad. She still can't apply for permanent residency here in the Philippine, because she is still a french citizen. My dad find the laws about that quite unfair, especially if it is for your spouse. It is more easy for us children because of the blood relationship to be naturalized here but I really find it unfair too for my mom. When she comes here even if she is with my dad, they only give a temporary visa and you have to renew it every 3 months I think during her stay. So sad really. I feel for you Sis. Hope your miracle will soon arrive. *hugz* (^^,)

stay strong and youll be able to be with him soon again