A revised discussion on knowing hes the right one.

A heart in the trash - a depction of my broken heart
United States
April 5, 2007 10:37pm CST
well turns out that he isnt the right one after all. He has blamed me for a lot of stuff i didnt do and one thing that was the right thing to do. And i moved back into my moms house. Can he still be the right one and the timing is off or move on and cut my losses (and material gains) and just deduce this relationship as a lesson learned? any information will help
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@tinamwhite (3252)
• United States
6 Apr 07
Princess, HUN if you are having doubts then you are probably right to move back into your Mom's home. The first six months of a relationship is like a "honeymoon" if you are having problems that require you to move then it is probably for the best that you end this relationship....that does not even beginto discuss the "blaming" thing...if a person can only feel better about themselves by making you feel bad then RUN...this is a bad situation. Most people do not change...you can not change him...do not try it will end in disaster! The only person who can change a person is themselves and they have to truly have the desire to do so for it to work...it may still be a struggle for them. You deserve someone who truly appreciates the person that you are and loves you without having to belittle you or make you feel badly about yourself....Let it go, you will be better off. Good luck!!
• United States
6 Apr 07
thank u that also helped a lot. i am heart broken but i will move on and forget about him. there are better fish in the see. thanks for the comment!
@Chryssi (828)
• United States
6 Apr 07
Darlin', if he's blamed you for things you haven't done, or things that you have done, that you've felt are right.. He isn't worth your time. You should probably just chalk this one up as a lesson learned and move on. You deserve better than that.
• United States
6 Apr 07
thank u sweetie. I am going to chalk this one as a lesson learned and move on. thanks for the advise.