Love, ambition, which is important?

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My brother's girlfriend will go to US sooner. It's her and his dream. But she gets the visa, while he doesn't. He tried to persuade the girl to wait him for a year. But at last, he gived up. He knows this is a rare oppotunity, 'cause the college will provide full scholarship. He knows, the girl is outstanding, she has a big ambiton. Yes, she really is a good one. I know my brother loves her very much. Recently, I telephoned him,he telled me his feeling. He is very afraid now, 'cause there will be a long departure, and the chinese there are very good at courting. Man there have lots of means. And it will be a lonely time for the girl, maybe she will fall into love on another one. He sometimes have the idea to go to US. as a student's spouse. But he dosen't want others to view him as failure. I don't know what is his final option, but I really hope that they will always together. Well, how do think about it? Love, ambition, which is important?