what will you do?

I would divorce him, so he could go and find a new partner and be happy. It wouldn't be fair to hold him hostage in a marriage that he obviously isn't happy in, if he was gay. I'd offer him the chance to start over fresh and hopefully be happy.

I would continue to love and be married to my husband...the only issue I'd have would be in the fact that he didnt tell me right away....after I was over that though I'd want to have his partner over for dinner and bbqs and of course our rule (no other partners in the house on an intimate level) would still stand.....Bottomline is this..I love my husband very much and if it turned out that he was gay or even bi I'd be fine with it...and if he WANTED a divorce I'd grant him one simply becuase him being happy is important to me...