what if no communication in married people?
By kyran_12
@kyran_12 (643)
India
April 6, 2007 3:32pm CST
as a hobby i like to roam in woods and isolated places many times . sometimes with friends or just alone i move to jungle for days on such occassion a month ago i was out with couple of my friends i saw some tribes at a jungle ..where around 7 days we stayed with them as there rutine was intresting and the place have no roadway or train to connect it was interesting for us. there on day 2nd i found a girl who was of around 18 and then look very beautiful..but we hardly could communicate as the language problems...but i understood her sometimes...while trying to understand her i started to love her and feel like falling in love.but then i thaught that as affection but after returning till today i miss her too much day by day..
..what do you think what will be the fututre if i marry her who just cant communicate with me also?
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
7 Apr 07
You did have communication even though you did not have the same language. You can work on this and she can learn your language and you can learn her language. Bilingual is a great thing. I hope she feels the same for you and it works out. Happiness is a grand thing. Good luck with this.
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
26 Apr 07
This is a hard kind of relationship. One of the things is communication in a relationship. The first thing you need to find out is how she feels about you. You need to take it slow and easy. Find out about each other first. Love is great but love is not a fix all. Your relationship after awhile might be under a strain because of this. How long have you known this girl? There are a lot of questions I would ask myself before making a commitment like marriage. Not a impossible situation but it would be hard. Just something for you to think about.
