do you get along with your mother in law?
By haydee324
@haydee324 (18)
Philippines
April 7, 2007 6:49am CST
hubby and i have been married for 7 years and until now, i can never get along with his mom. though we never vocalize our conflict, actions do speak louder than words. and because of this, our relationship as husband and wife has been so strained. has any of you experienced this? how do you deal with it?
6 responses
@multisubj (451)
• India
10 Apr 07
May be Odipus Complex. If so sympathize with her. If you have a son, you will also become a mother in law one day.
@multisubj (451)
• India
10 Apr 07
Pl. examine if she can be taken to a psychologist for counselling. Pl. also liberalise yourselves.
@sixfeetunder (77)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I hate the b***h. She is a nasty dirty skan* and I hope I never see her again. I have already forbid her from coming to my house and she is not allowed to call here to talk to my wife. I wish I could give you some helpful advice but all I can offer is stay the hell away from them.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
7 Apr 07
Yea I do actually...I absolutely ADORE that woman!! She is so sweet and loving I dont see how anyone coulndt love her to bits LOL...My EX mum in law though was a different story...I get along with her but only on a curteous level, her husband however I have always gotten along with....
@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
Yah, I am very much lucky to have a mother-in-law a very thoughtful and very warm..she is very talkative lots of story you will amazed and learning.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
7 Apr 07
at first we got along really well but now it is somewhat strained between us. luckily for me it hasnt caused problems between me and my husband because he agrees with me. his mother has proved to be a rather selfish person and seems to favor some kids over the others. and she isn't much of a grandma to our kids. my mom and dad take the kids once a month so my husband and i can go on a date. they have had our kids atleast once a month for the last 4 years. his mom and dad have had them only a handful of times and thats only if i asked her to babysit for something. and when i ask her she makes it seem as if its an inconvience to her. which is part of what has strained our relationship. if its causing problems between you and your husband you should get help before it ruins your marriage
@michele_villasenor (624)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
I am so blessed because I never had any problems with my mother-in-law. She has always made me feel welcome and she has always been supportive and helpful.