Best way to get over with your Past Relationship??
By rafay_
@rafay_ (92)
Pakistan
April 7, 2007 7:35pm CST
Hi..
I broke up almost 1 year ago..and I still find it hard to move on with my life..It's not like I don't have girls around me or I don't go out with girls alot..I usually find even more beautiful girls out there then her willing to hangout with me..But I just don't know why I still think about her most of the time or I just can't take her thoughts and blasts from my past away from me!!
So I want to know...Whats the best way to get over with your past relationship??
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3 responses
@anya11111 (169)
• India
8 Apr 07
if you cant get her off your mind, maybe she`s the one you really love! try going back to her unconditionally. there are some things in life where you think you can do away with but can`t. if you have left her in rage then your mind is telling you that you have made a mistake. you could always communicate with her and clear all the grudges. only then that compartment of your mind will be closed and her memories will not pester you.
parting with unhealthy relations always leaves a scar on your mind which takes its own time to heal. instead talk to her if the heat is over and be good friends! you need not live togather to be good friends.
@rafay_ (92)
• Pakistan
8 Apr 07
hmmm...I do tell myself that I really love her..
But you know..I have been waiting for this "Time Heals everything" to do its magic for me..and about communicating back to her..well honestly, I thought alot about that, but I ditched her in a very stupid manner when she was willing to patch up..and now I just feel to shy to ask her out once again..!
Anyway..I posted this topic to acctually know how to get over with your past relationship..Not to patch up..:P..!!!
@beibie080305 (21)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Apr 07
Acceptance, that i think must be the first step. Accept that your relationship is over, that she's out of your life. Forgive her of the pain she caused you. Forgive yourself for giving her reason to quit. Enjoy being single. She might be in your thoughts still now because you chose to keep her there. Stop thinking about her so you can set your self free from her and the wonderful memories you once have. Help yourself to move on. Everything is in your hands, you have a choice. Tell yourself to love again one more time, always one more time.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
8 Apr 07
I personally don't think you ever really get over a past love until you have someone to fill the void, I know it is not easy, but I found when you do meet that someone you then look back and wonder why you pined so much. But remember its ok to be single in this world for awhile it does you good then one day bingo...
