does body really matters or you go for the attitude?

There´s no single thing that would attract a person to you. Every person has different triggers. Some are visual, and long for someone 6´ tall, or someone with jet black hair, or with a muscular build. Some are emotional, and want someone that´s snuggly, or someone that´s proud and powerful, or someone that´s outgoing and bubbly. Some are even mentally triggered, and want someone that loves opera music, or loves reading science fiction, or loves birding.If you are interested in someone, make it your mission to find out what that person´s triggers are. See if you match up with what he/she is looking for, and work from there!Wit, intelligence, and a shared sense of humor are a nice starting point. Obviously physical attraction is important too... but a sense of overall compatibility and friendship is key (for me at least)