how to be the best girlfriend to your boyfriend?
By sweetjessa
@sweetjessa (234)
Philippines
April 8, 2007 6:28am CST
things dont go well sometimes with you and your bf. no matter what you do, sometimes, you just end up fighting... so, how to be a good girlfriend to your boyfriend. guys? what should a girl do for you to stay with them and want them as your lifetime partner?
4 responses
@tommy408 (361)
• Malaysia
8 Apr 07
Being a good girlfriend is not the only ingredient of sustaining a stable relationship and avoiding fights. I wonder why girls always blame themselves for every arguments and fights that happen in relationship.
Sweetjessa,
Fights happens for a reason. Find that reason out and resolve them. It maybe because of you or your BF or neither of you. Sometimes there are just because of differences in opinions. Work that out.
Now, for your question on "what should a girl do for us to stay with them",
Buy an ice cream stick and eat it in front of us. Licking it in slow motion and sucking the melting creams once in a while. We will stay forever. LOL.
Jokes a side, I know this sound cliche, but be yourself and adjust you boyfriend. Instead of hoping him to change, try to appreciate and celebrate your differences That will work.
@axe_effect (799)
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
well, i think you can answer that if you and your boyfriend will last long, the answer only lies in there, although that i cant tell you the answer or the meaning of it, but just if you could only get up for about 6 months to 12 months, you will understand each other and then you will see how both of you would get along with each other, all i can say is that maybe both of you are still young to apprehend that you want him or her as your lifetime partner. for me, in order to make the relationship stable, is that, both of you must have a respect for each other, not fear. i think love and respect for each other is the key to the success of a good relationship.
@kyran_12 (643)
• India
8 Apr 07
you are right i think sometimes things go wrong the causes may be anyone....i am a guy not a girl so can tell you one thing that let your boyfriend have some space . then stop argueing if you do. then let him feel insecure too so that it will work out to be the best. and last but not least is stop expressing yourself too much ..let him explore you rather than you to open up....cheers