how do you mend your broken heart?

Philippines
April 8, 2007 2:39pm CST
Sometimes we just can't control our emotions and we experience unwanted emotions because of a heartache.. How would you deal with it?
3 people like this
8 responses
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
8 Apr 07
Broken heart - It pains when hearts break
I am very sorry for you if you are experiencing the pain of heart break.....I think most of us have gone through this heartache, which is painful, yet we have to survive, we have to suffer and still stay alive......TIME....... yes time is the only medicine that will cure the wound of broken heart. As the time will pass you will cry less and less because your tears will start to dryup....the memory of that sad event will start fading slowly as the time will teach you to go on with life.....only time will bring smile back to your lips as with time they will learn again how they smiled.....only time will slowly slowly pick up the broken pieces of you heart and join them. It is very difficult task, so you will agree that it will take time....so just leave everything and go on living...as the time will pass...your broken heart will be cured.....I hope so......May God help you.....and all those who are suffering from this dreadful pain.
• Philippines
8 Apr 07
is the saying it takes one to forget one applicable mostly with people?
@uu4h708 (638)
• Philippines
14 May 07
i let time deal with it... that's why mending a broken heart takes a lot of patience, hard work and tears...
@simran1430 (1790)
• India
9 Apr 07
It’s not easy when our heart was broken deep inside; life full of emptiness, heaviness, and sadness, feeling that the end of everything. Almost everyone has been experience a break-up sometime, and find it really difficult to deal with heartbreak — a wave of grief, anger, confusion, despair, low self-esteem, and maybe even jealousy all at once. However, whatever that cause your heartbreak, life must go on.Stay with the pain don’t fight your feelings.Don’t try to deny that your heart had broken deep inside. Do whatever you want to do to expel all your sadness, and rage; do not shame to cry, or shout loudly, or you want to crawl under the duvet, sleep all day, eat too much ice-cream just go with it — as long as you’re not hurt yourself! Don’t worry about having ups and downs; these a signs that you’re accept and realize the awful feelings are not the end of everything, but the start of the healing process. Close your eyes, and listen to your heart, This is not the end of the world, and I’m ready to bring myself out from hanging on to this pain forever!
• United States
11 Apr 07
Sleep, cry, eat chocolate, and spend time with those I love once I'm up to it. That's really how I deal with a broken heart. It's tough. And it sucks even more. I hope your heart mends soon sweetie.
• Philippines
5 May 07
i'm having a bad habbit when i'm sufferring from a broken heart. i'm going to a bar and drink alot until i'm drunk. it's the typical way, you know...
@edzingers (330)
• Philippines
9 Apr 07
What I do is just get out of the house and enjoy! I can't stay home then I'm broken hearted it'll KILL me! I try to forget about it because I'm the type of person who keeps it and not telling anyone my problem. I want to fix it alone and I just realized that sometimes you can't fix it alone you really need someone to guide you and protect you to whatever you're planning to do.
• United States
8 Apr 07
I think that everyone should experience heartbreak at least once as a lesson in life..as for me, when I do fall in love, I fall hard..when my heart is broken, I might cry a few times and think what could I have done to prevent it, but then I pick myself up and get back into whatever it is in my life that I let love distract me from and get back into it full force..I find things to distract myself from the pain..
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
9 Apr 07
we can not control our emotions for we are only human. and mending a broken heart doesnt take over night. give your time to cry, to mourn to be lonely. (but dont blame yourself please we do make mistakes but relationships are like two ways street. its like a dance that it takes two). then after crying find someone to talk to. a friend, a sis, anyone who will be lending an ear for you to pour out your heart with. after giving yourself time with all of this.... it is time now to pick up yourself and try to live a new life. enjoy life and learn from what you did from the past. it will make you a better and stronger person.