my grandmother died today :( plz read this and help
By melman
@melman (129)
United States
April 8, 2007 7:56pm CST
hi everyone im just asking you what i should do now?
i was so close to my grandma and she just didnt wake up. today i thougt was gonna be an awsome day but it was horrible :( how can i tell my kids this. they were so so so close to grandma too. they still dont know yet about it and i realy dont wanna tell them. should i wait and let them ask me? or should i just tell them right this second? right now my kids are watching tv and are realy happy. i realy dont want to ruin their day but i dont know how or when i should tell them. please help me. what should i do?
2 responses
@jingjingdream (21)
• China
9 Apr 07
maybe you could tell the the fact when they ask , if they not , do not offer to tell them . you could explain in this . it is just time for everyone to go another place , a loving peacful place . grandma love them forever, sh just go to another place , and she miss them .
@Bedient43 (250)
• United States
9 Apr 07
No you just gotta lay it on the line. Give them some preperation though. Well it depends on how old your kids are. If they are 13 + you just got to day ok but..... and so on but if theyre younger make up a story like.. Grandma moved to heaven.. then if they ask if they will see her anymore just say yeah someday and by the time they realise what happen they will have moved on.
