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@sexy_gurlie07 (44)
Philippines
April 9, 2007 1:15am CST
?Is Long distance love affair really survive. well, me we're together for almost 3 years. His studying at baguio while me i'm studying here in pampanga. Somethings, i doubt him for not texting me and he is always busy whenever i call him. All the times we argue for non sense things, jealous here jealous there. I really want to survive this relationship and i'm doing i can to survive in this relationship..Is really long distance love affair really waits?????
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@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
9 Apr 07
yes...long distance love affair could survive but it must be that both of you would like to make your relationship deeper...Before we can answer it we have to define what it means for a relationship “to work.” Most people are interested in whether or not the relationship can simply survive the separation. They want to know if trying a long distance relationship means that they have a greater chance of breaking up than if they were in a geographically close relationship. The most accurate answer to this is that no one knows for sure. However, the majority of studies show no greater risk of a long distance relationship breaking up than any other relationship.
While this is good news, it’s only part of the story. Staying together isn’t always the best thing for a relationship, as we all know. Many relationships should end if those involved are unsatisfied or feel trapped. So another way of looking at whether long distance relationships, or any relationship, “work” is to examine the quality of the relationship. Conveniently, researchers have done just that. In our study we compared those in long distance relationships with those in geographically close relationships. We looked at relationship satisfaction, commitment, intimacy, and trust. We found that on all these measures the two groups were identical. While our study was the largest and most detailed, several other studies have found the same thing.
credits to: jifmilne.com
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