When girls use abusive words how to react??????

India
April 9, 2007 6:39am CST
Few days back my friend was sending scraps to a girl on a chat community..Suddenly she started using abusive words for her...He didnt knew how to react to the situation...He likes that girl but is not able to talk to that girl after that day... So tell your views how should one react to situation like this.....And now what should my friend do????
2 responses
@Maxturvy (114)
• Philippines
9 Apr 07
My reactions to that situation is I will avoid this girl anymore from chatting then look for another one who is nice and cool. If ever I had bad thing done to that girl, I might say and feel sorry for myself, I won't do it again. Even if I like the girl, at least I know her ways and bad attitudes, I rather turn my back on this girl and be thankful for knowing her personality.We are not meant to each other. You should share your compassion to your friends and give advices not to chat her anymore, throw her into the trash of oblivion.
• United States
5 Nov 12
No person or thing is worth sacrificing ones values, morals and principals over. Always maintain your dignity and self-respect. Above all, always set a positive example for others in every thing you do.
• Singapore
9 Apr 07
If a girl uses abusive words, there may be some problems with her. it may be 1. family problem 2. She thinks its cool because all her friends are using it. 3. She is just too irritated by something on that day . Those are the 3 possibilities I could think of. If any girl would use abusive words, I will react in shock, because it is quite rare in my country to hear girls using abusive words, to handle it, I will just stop bothering that girl for a moment. It would not help if you try to be a smart Aleck and tell her that it is wrong. I would suggest that your friend would stop talking to her for a moment. If it got worst, then talk to her nicely on the chat community, find out what is wrong. If she listens to you, then it will be good, if not, that would be a pity.