How do you get over someone?
By day_lunz
@day_lunz (75)
Philippines
April 9, 2007 10:29am CST
It's been months since that sad day...and still it's fresh. I've done my fair share of distractions..travelling, shopping, flirting, clubbing, working like hell, reading all books ever written (boring or rocket science), etc... still..the undiluted un-adulterated pain meets you at the end of the day. If you've ever heard Faith Hill's song "Let me let go". I just cant. Hooh! Love and it's so called glory..somehow it eludes me :) Cheers to those who are in love!!
4 responses
@MissDylynne (87)
• United States
9 Apr 07
I apologize for your loss. It can be devastating and very painful when you lose or go through a break up. What's important right now is that you look out for you. No need to jump into another relationship immediately as it will only confuse you and make you feel worse. You need to do things for yourself right now. Things that you enjoy.
I went through a horrendous break up years ago that entrapped my soul and made it impossible to look at another man for over 3 years. I cried a lot and hurt 24/7. What I did to make myself feel better was I wrote out a list of everything HE did that aggravated me or made me mad and kept it with me. Every time thereafter I felt sad, I read that list and it actually helped. Please let me know if this works for you. I wish you well and hope you feel better.
@MissDylynne (87)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Of Course! You want them most because you know you can't/shouldn't be with them. Kind of your mind and heart messing with you. I know what you are going through. There is another out there for you that you will meet and when you do, you will have NO thoughts of the one you gave up. Give yourself time to heal first and you will be fine. Try the list thing...it really worked for me and I think it will help you.
@patricia24 (568)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I think i really believe the old saying "time heals all wounds" you should accept things as they are. You will meet someone that will become your strength and always have your friends at your side. If i feeling things like that, i just eat chocolates.
@Aphroditei_5279 (2465)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
I think it is okay you still feel that way. I just got separated with my husband for almost 4 years now. And I must admit it is not easy really untill now. But I have learned that the key to better recovery after any relationship, is to embrace yourself first. The healing will come within you first. And keep in mind that you have broke up for very good reasons. Because if he was really meant for you, nothing could have separated you. And you are doing well by distracting yourself. Just always keep a friend close by, text or call, so when you are alone you have someone to talk to. Enjoy being single and when you'll embrace your loneliness and get over it. Someone better for you will come. Cheers! And by the way welcome to Mylot! Happy Posting! (^^,)
@rzmaknojia (94)
• Pakistan
13 Apr 07
hmm ya there are many sad days when i dont talk to her thats my bad day all day were going badly i cant have get rest on that day :( what can i do please tell me :(
