Did you have much to talk about...

April 9, 2007 11:12am CST
When you met your Significant Other,did you have much to tell him/her?What subjects did you talk about?Me and my hubby never had much to talk about before marriage and even now.we both are not very talkative.What about you?do you like to talk with your SO/Boyfriend/husband?did you also tell him/her about your previous relationships?
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@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
1 May 07
My husband and I were very talkative with each other when we first met. It was sort of weird because I'm generally a very quiet person and have a hard time talking to people I don't know well, but when my husband and I first met, it just seemed like I'd known him forever and it was so easy for us to keep the conversation going. Now that we're married, it seems like we never run out of things to talk about still. I'm not really sure how that happens, but somehow we can manage to keep talking for hours even when it doesn't seem like there's much going on to talk about. lol We really are best friends, and I feel so much more comfortable talking to him than anyone else I've know. I think that was just one of the reasons I knew I wanted to spend forever with him. :)
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3 May 07
So great to know that you and your husband share a good friendship.Me and my hubby though we don;t talk much,I feel we understand each other even without words,And I agree,it is great to have someone who is both your husband/partner and best friend.
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
12 Jun 07
Yes, sometimes when you're with the right person, you don't even have to say anything at all! :) So many times it's really awkward when there's a lot of silence, but it's great when you're with someone who you can be quiet with and feel totally comfortable! Thanks for best response! :)
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
21 Apr 07
We had a lot to talk about but I still talked more easily with girlfriends more than my husband. We don't have terribly too much in common but we are married because our needs for love are the same. We also spend time driving around in the car and not talking .We're both quiet, and yet sometimes we can talk for hours togehter, but it's not like that everyday. Yes we both told each other about our previous relationships.
23 Apr 07
seems like yoo both are just like us too!me and my hubby don't have too much to talk about but sometimes we do sit and talk when our daughter is sleeping.sometimes serious things and sometimes just simple things.we both did not have any relationships before we got married but there were a few guys who were after me when I was in college and I told my husband about those guys.
• Philippines
5 May 07
Before when we are still on the bf-gf stage with my partner, we cant seem to get tired of talking with each other. We often have to part at the wee hours of the morning because we seemed to be not so lost at words. After 5 years of being together, my partner and me always taled after work. We talk about all the things that we did at work. We never get tired of talking with each other. We talk about our hopes, aspirations, challenges, goals, desperations, hardships and everything. and yes, we knew each others secrets and also past relationships.
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@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
30 Apr 07
When my boyfriend and I first met we were very shy. We had friends who knew eachother and started talking through msn and never officially met. So one day we went to the movies together and although we had talked for almost over a year ont he net it was officially our first meeting. We were quiet and didnt talk much. Thank GOD we went to a movie, and i didnt have to worry bout starting up a conversation.
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